My Giant will fly to Indonesia and stay for 10D9N. Just like you all when visited by your lover, I also want to make his stay unforgettable. When he goes back to his hometown, I want him to bring good impression and good memories to share with his big family and friends. Ofcourse I have made a list of things to do as an "event calendar" for him, but I think it would be perfect if there are recommendation I could add to the list.
So, if you're my Giant, is there any thing you would love to do in 10 days?
Any thing you can suggest how to spend your time during your stay?
I will appreciate whatever your recommendation is. Thanks.
PS
To be honest, I am nervous as hell.
Fasting is not just about abstaining from food and drink,
but also refraining from bad deeds and sins.
Happy Fasting 
May the blessings of Ramadan be with you
and your loved ones,
and may you have a joyous
and fulfilling fasting experience.
To my Giant and I new year means new fiscal year.. new budget plan implementation.. new schedule adjustment.. and all those mean busy.. busy.. busy!
You see, my Giant is a night bat and a late morning worm, while Kal is a morning bird and an evening koala. However, for two days we changed that a bit. Surprisingly enough he could become a morning bird and I was a night owl. Yes, several days ago we decided to have a two day honeymoon before our jobs take most of our time.
Honeymoon!
Hmm.. you know.. doing things together.. being silly crazy.. having baths, dressing up (when at home Kal wears mostly underwear, Tshirt and short only sometimes
), eating, watching movies, staring at each other, kissing, including .. etc etc.. virtually ofcourse.. video calling on Skype and WA.
I am a terrible striptease dancer.
I love my Giant very much and he loves me as much. I know to some that sounded ridiculous, but not to us. We enjoyed our romantic moments as in real life.
Thank you my HB for the unforgettable honeymoon.
I got the worst valentine's gift ever, my Giant said.
And that's simply because I gave him Durian..
I told him sooner or later
he has gotta try tasting it.
I don't think I am skinny, but I have no clue
why others still say the opposite.
Anyway..
I love you, Four!
Thank you for being my Divergent Man.
Hope you enjoyed the Val Day.
For several days I really wanted to have mangosteens. So on the weekend I went to a store and bought about 3.5 kilos. Why so many, you might ask. Well, I simply wanted to have bigger chances to get the best. However, most of the time I couldn't be sure I would get good ones, let alone the best, as I could only see them from the outside. I spent some time to select ones which looked good with hope that I would get the good ones.
Guess what?
I chose a pretty one
But that one was rotten.
I chose another pretty one from the outside
It turned out to be good.
And surprisingly enough, this one looked not so pretty but was actually very good.
Once I peeled off their skin, I couldn't return them to the store. Whether I like it or not, I gotta accept what I got. I could only blame myself for not being a good "judge".
Hmm...
To me choosing a partner is somehow similar to that. The big difference is that you have to be a good person to get a good partner.
If you think your partner/wife/husband was a bad person, don't you dare claiming you're good!.
And to me my Giant is good man so I guess I am not that bad, eh?
PS
I was lucky to have many more good mangosteens than the bad ones. Although I still couldn't judge them from their looks, it's worth spending time selecting..
I showed someone's posts and mine on a blog to my Giant. I told him that I would post a blog as my next respond to that someone's post. I said I was ready to "fire" as I had "good weapon".
Guess what?
He said:
"Let it go, Kal. He doesn't worth your time and energy!"
I said:
"Ok, I will not post the blog. I will not stoop to his level!"
He said:
"Good. That's one of strategies to handle that type of people."
Hmmm.. I am so blessed to have my Giant in my life. Not only is he good looking, smart, sweet and kind, but also he is so amazingly wise!
Thank you, my HB! I love you soooo much!
Sooo now I am blogging a story about
Christie, as an exchange.
Wait, I need to get some photos to post. I'll continue asap.
Meantime, I hope you all enjoy your xmas to the fullest with your family!
ONE
He had a meeting with his friends from the sport club, an online meeting ofcourse. He told me that one of his friends noticed something and asked him.
His friend : Hey, what happened to your razor? Is it broken?
Him : Nope. There is this woman. Her name is Kal from Indonesia. I have grown my whiskers for her.
My silent response --> 
~~
TWO
Once I asked him if there's any Muslim in his area. He said he wasn’t sure if there is.
Me : Let say I come to your city and I accompany you to a sport event where there are many friends of yours. What do you think will your friends say or do when seeing me, a Muslim woman wearing hijab, holding your hand?
Him : They will be nice to you because you are with me.
My silent response --> ~~
THREE
Sometimes when we video called, he let the door behind him open so I could see his son’s bedroom door. Once I saw his son entering his room.
Me : Is that your son?
Him : Yes, the youngest. Do you want to be introduced to him?
Me : Naah. I am not ready. Next time, ok
Him : Sure, whenever you're ready
My silent response --> ~~
FOUR
I told him about what a big tall western man did to me when we’re on the Train from Paris to The Netherlands.
Him : If I was with you that moment, do you want me to act accordingly?
Me : Naah, I can handle it. If he started being abusive, then it’s your turn.
Him : I have never been beaten but I am not afraid to
Me : Nooo… I don’t want that to happen
My silent response --> And every day there is always something, even just a little thing, that makes my heart touched.
Isn’t he so very adorable or what? Have a good weekend, everyone!
I have never thought that a glitch can be so laughable yet ugly that need to avoid or even to fix once for all if necessary, until recently. The thing is how to avoid a glitch that keeps coming in this widely open world?
But hey, don't call me Kalpataru if I cannot handle it.
PS
I gotta go now. I will allow comment when I return.
My Giant is a citizen of the USA and follows his Government policies (for the most parts). And Kalpataru is a citizen of Indonesia and follows her Government policies.
Regarding what's happening in the Middle East, my Giant is with innocents in Israel while Kalpataru is with innocents in Palestine.
Here is where Indonesia stands.
Now, what's gonna happen to Giant-Kalpataru relationship? 
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