It's been one of those kinda days today
...music does wonders for the soul sometimes.....Please brighten my day with a little music...always helps
What is your favorite song? What would you say is the most annoying song ever?
What kinda music gets the workflow goin? When you're down, what do you listen to? Let's fill this blog with good stuff (and not so good stuff
)...and what is your connection to the music you prefer?
13 years ago...I was at an all time high, I suppose you could say..
....just looking at an old blog of mine from 2016 where I had lost about 80lbs or so since 2009 ...and since then, I have just put it in the back of my mind until I did some looking back and now it's like 13 years later and I'm still keeping it off...surprised myself
Progress is progress, though. I know I'll never be thin....but I'm happy where I'm at and at 50 now, I can't complain
Being an artist, I love to see work like this for interpretation. Have a wonderful day!
I'm pretty excited....today will be taking a road trip up 4-5 hours into New Hampshire. Now day trips may be mediocre to some, but to me, being the hermit that I am ..
..it's a blast, seeing as I hardly go anywhere, other than a walk to a local store for necessities. My smokes are much cheaper there too, so I'm stocking up
(my apologies to the nonsmokers lol) Who loves to travel?? I know I do
For the last several years since my children have grown into adults, I have been traveling about, exploring this beautiful country. I go where there's opportunities and in some cases, where I'm needed....a bit of a nomad, I suppose. I came back to Connecticut to help my daughter with some things and now that my help has been rendered, the grandkids are now all in school, it's time to move on again, so as not to hinder her progress in adult life. Though, I'm not sure if I plan to leave Connecticut before or after winter, I also have to decide where my next destination will be
....and where I can serve a purpose to help others. And different environments where to begin my art sales again. I have already lived in Florida, Oklahoma, New Mexico and Connecticut. California looks promising, but maybe some input from others here can give me some insight as to a good destination
On the daily, I usually get about a dozen emails....mostly I just drop the x's and delete as I am not looking for anyone on here (says it on my profile). Once in a while I get those who are persistant and send two or three...only then do I open out of pure curiosity as to what kind of conversation he is having amongst himself to send so many....and then, I delete. And sometimes.....I notice, those are the ones that first send a greeting message with some lame (and sometimes downright obnoxious) pick up line....and the next is wondering why I haven't responded....and then again, all of a sudden, saying how i'm an ugly @ss among other insults.
....hmm first yer tryin to be all into me (though at times in a nauseating way)...and then all of a sudden because I don't respond, I'm ugly and nasty, or whatever words ya choose.....well, dang, make up yer mind already.....like flippin a damn coin
Funny, though, those are usually the faceless ones that do that.
Then people wonder why I don't even bat an eye at the faceless profiles (providing I hadn't seen yer pic once before)....
We're in a world full of "fish" lol
.....I grew up in a good family, my parents married over 50 years and still growing strong, one sister married for almost 20 years, another sister married over 20 years, another sister dating an awesome man for 5 years and my other sister in a relationship now for 12 years and then there's me lol....
I have wonderful friends that have known me a lifetime, friends who are married, friends that have girlfriends, friends that have boyfriends...again, then there's me.
I feel like I live in a world full of fish either just looking for friends or looking for sex, there is no in-between. I'm an outcast goldfish in an ocean full of betta's, waiting for someone to drop that worm on a hook and reel me out of this nightmare.....toss me in a pan and put me out of my misery lol
This blog is all in good fun though
This always completely boggles my mind. Call me impulsive, call me foolish....but alas, I am a gemini and I do tend to act how I feel at any given moment, with how I feel. My emotions are often expressed freely....not sure if that is such a flaw, I guess it all depends on how ya look at it. Anyway....not to distract from the initial topic...
What are men and women afraid of? This seems to be the biggest issue in dating on my end. Why must a couple start off as friends first? What is this etiquette in dating to "wait" for this or it's "too soon" for that...funny thing is, divorce rate is higher these days than it ever has been and many years ago, romance and chivalry ruled relationships and things weren't always over-analyzed like they are today. People fell in love without worrying about which steps to take when in the relationship...they used their hearts rather than racking the brains....and then, in staying together, they actually resisted the impulse to jump ship when things got rocky.
What are you afraid of....commitment? Getting hurt? fear of the thoughts of another of you? What's the big deal.....if the connection is there, it's there...why over-analyze....if it's not broke, don't fix it. Men (not all) want to have sex within the first few days but then say it's too soon for feelings.....well...but it's not too soon to give you everything physically? And this is why I don't get involved physically unless I'm in a relationship ....some will say anything just to get the physical gratification but when it comes to any kind of feeling or commitment, they start shaking in their shoes. What's wrong with people? Or is is me? If it is, then so be it....This is me lol....
...just off the top of my head so please excuse any grammatical errors
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