Dating Seems Like Gambling!
I'm recently getting over falling in love with a friend who didn't feel the same. It's strange because though nothing ever happened between us (well, nothing serious anyway) I still feel just as broken hearted. I guess it was just my feeling of loss over what I believed "could have been".
I do however completely understand because I then went on a date with a girl I met online and chatted with for hours. Seemed like we already knew each other and had so much in common. Then when I met her in person there was just no "spark" there for me. Unfortunately, there simply has to be a physical attraction. I felt terrible because I think she was attracted to me and soon after broke all contact and removed her profile. I hate that I may have hurt her feelings but I guess there's nothing I can do about it.
But.. that brings me to my point. It just seems to me that finding someone that you're attracted to and compatible with that feels the same about you is like trying to win the lottery. Yet here I am... trying again. I guess I'm looking for the one that makes me feel like a "winner". You can't win if you don't play I guess. :)