Posted: Fri Apr 17, 2009 4:31 PM CST
Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:16 PM CST
Why don't the women reply?
I've been on this and other dating sites for a couple of months, now.
I've emailed, flowered, flirted, winked, at some women (not a lot) and found the responses to be minimal, at best.
I realize that women probably receive a lot more contacts than men, in general and expected that. After all, there are so many horny toads out there, hitting on every female profile they come across and making it harder for the real guys to come through.
So many women state in their profiles that they're looking for "true love", honesty, communication and their "SOULMATE" (I hate that one). Yet when you contact them, they don't even reply. Are they only looking at pix and going by that? Are they looking to see what kind of job you have or money you make? what is it that they're looking for that we men don't seem to know?
Now, I've been contacted by some women and met a few of them. One was about 60 or 70 pounds heavier than her "recent" pic. One was more of an interrogation session than a date, one only wanted sex (surprise!!) and a couple were looking to get married with in 20 minutes of the end of the second date!!..lol. One was great, just too far away.
What is it that these women really want? And if they want it so badly, why don't they respond to it?