Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 11:18 PM CST
Why Most Men Get Scammed!!!
Sex is one of the simplest reasons why most men are scammed; it is not really that they seek love. No, most don’t seek love. They want to import a “sex slave girl”. Someone they can order around, someone who they thought is not civilized or Americanized. A housemaid, a cook, a cleaner, someone not so exposed and a sexual mechanical tool. Someone who will be submissive to every single word and command because they know very well that they cannot control western ladies, so the seek love beyond territories of “I know my human right and I have my Lawyer” and at that they get blinded to simple formulae of establishing love relationship which must be in the hand of Time. Come to think of it, how will I think of loving someone I haven’t met in person, that’s stupidity; do I know if she has AIDS or some other venerable diseases? A true emotion ignites while I am looking into her eyes face to face, holding her hands and when I might have spent time with her in so many dinner outings, watching movie together or some other fun thrillers. Chatting online and talking on phone may not necessarily be enough to ascertain her likes and dislikes. I will need to meet this person face to face and since this is what I wanted so much, tradition demands that I should go and meet her, possibly see her family formally and not trying to steal their daughter through the back door. Well, if you think that I am wrong please pen me…… One Love!!!
Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:46 PM CST
Infatuated
How do you decipher your feelings for someone? How do you feel 5-10 minutes after conjugation? At this point, does the sex still make you feel closer to that person? Or are you beginning to feel regret and anxiety about what happened? If the latter, then it's most definitely not love but lust. Imagine the person you love in 50 years when they are old and fat. Would that change how you feel about them? If yes, then what you feel now is most likely lust/infatuation - not love. Lasting relationships are those that are built on love - not infatuation or lust. It might be right to say that in the beginning of most relationship, it is very difficult for one to give a clear distinction of when they are in lust, when they are infatuated and when they are in love. Have it in mind you’re feeling all three at once to but to some degree. But here are certain ways you can draw a margin between love, lust and infatuation.
What really comes in your mind when you see that beautiful Lady or that good looking young man? Do you naked him/her in your mind? Do you begin to imagine how it would be like kissing him/her, if yes then you are lusting. And that to say, whenever you just want to consummate love to the person it is usually lust. If you want to be with them, learn about them, and maybe someday have a sexual relationship, you are probably in a good mix of all three.
Love is usually pure and a feeling that is mildly possessive but with lots of care, too; infatuation can be detected easily, when a persons says he loves someone, but is unwilling to talk, make any eye contact, or willing to do anything at all, but stay away, remaining shy; and lust can be known if your "love" shifts easily from one person to another, and lust is usually expressed through short physical/emotional (but mostly physical) relationships.
Love is when you love the whole person (spirit, heart, mind and body), lust is when you only love part of them, which means that you see only part of the person as having value and that the whole person is not valuable.
To help you make tough decisions about your relationship, ask someone you trust who has lots of experience with the kind of relationship you want for yourself. For example: say you want to be happily married to one person for life. If your parents have both been bitterly divorced three times, then they are probably not the ones to talk to. On the other hand, if they are about to celebrate their 50th anniversary of bliss together, then they may be ideal to learn from.
A major life-changing decision like moving in together, getting engaged or getting married should be a natural step if you love someone. It should not inspire fear. Here is the kick, when you are taking the lead with your mind, you will always be cleared of what you going in for just like an apprentice will master his trade but when you allowed your emotions to take the lead, I bet you will end-up in a gutter someday.
If you're not sure about your feelings or your relationship, take things slowly, introspect. Spend time apart and see how you are feeling while you are away.
Do you miss the person? Or are you more attracted to others when you are apart? So take your time, and study each other. Real love takes root slowly and grows with time. “True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be." (Unknown) Infatuation and grows into full bloom almost immediately.
Just GIVE IT SOME TIME, DO NOT RUSH. WHAT WILL BE, WILL BE. Cheers my Friends...!!!
Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 3:44 AM CST
How TO Have Fun Alone....
Are just alone with no one around? No friends, no parents, no sibling around. Then don’t sit there all alone doing nothing. There are more fun to catch than just being bored and lonely. The “me time” is mainly the time you can create, mediate, research, maintain, evaluate and refurbish your life for a more meaningful result. It’s not the time to get addict with pornography, casino, masturbate and so on. An idle mind they said is the devils workshop but It could be a creative one as well.
The best thing about "me time" is you're not going to have any interruptions. So, catch up on that English paper, study for that history test next week, clean your room, and work on that science project.
Go outside and enjoy nature. A solo hike allows you to observe nature without distractions of friends. You'll be surprised how fun and relaxing watching the clouds go by can be.
1.Take care and clean up yourself. Your “me time” will be the best time to give yourself free manicure and pedicure. Clean your pubic areas and give your face the best clean up. Take your time and press your nose upwards then you will discover some hidden oily substance that has always been making your face oily.
2.Take lots of random pictures. Take the most random pictures of yourself; pictures of your feet, pictures of you acting silly and sticking your tongue out, pictures of the ceiling or the kitchen sink.This is a great way to just have fun!
3.Read a book! Find a nice comfy spot, with a cold glass of any thing you like the most and read, read, read! It doesn't even have to be a book, it can be the latest issue of a magazine.
4.Pop in a movie, make some popcorn and have a "movie night".
5.Experiment in the kitchen. Make a new fruit smoothie or funny shaped pancake! Let your inner chef be revealed!
6.Turn on some music and dance in front of the mirror.
7.Go in your closet and mix and match your clothes. You can have fun just playing dress-up.
8.Go on the Internet and re-do your Myspace page or website, play with your Neopets, play games, catch up on the latest celebrity gossip on-line or edit on wikiHow!
9.Write in your notebook. Write a poem, draw a picture, write a letter to someone (or even yourself), make a list of things you want to do in your life or just write down a shopping list.
10.Reorganize your room!
11.Do you have a pet? Go walk your dog. Exercise in the house if it's raining by working out to music!
12.music, sing with it, play air guitar, or you could just sit in a big comfy chair, look out the window and eat some chips and just chill for a little. It will be very enjoyable and you will pass the time.
13.Exercise. Jog around the house with your music, or outside on the side walk, or on a treadmill. Do some push ups, stand on your ankles or toes for a long time or you could sit against the wall. There are many other articles saying good exercise ideas.
14.Meditate. There's nothing quite like it.
15.Write a book. The time may never come again when you will have such perfect aloneness - so make the most of it.
Though there are somethings we can do alone.... that why I am here too...... I need someone to
me get rid of it!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 10:08 PM CST
Legalized Executioners
Ever since Roe vs. Wade became law in 1973, more than 70 million innocent lives have been snuffed out. We abort our babies and defend the atrocity on the basis that we must not produce millions of youngsters who will not have adequate medical and educational facilities. Now we assumed, any unwanted pregnancy could be ended legally simply because a man-made law lifts the penalty of killing the innocent but it does not change God's legislation on the matter.
Up till now we are shocked when we read about the human sacrifices of ancient times, we criticized ancient culture and customs while our unborn babies are regularly sacrificed on the altars of feminist ideology and convenience. We are stunned by the horrors of the German holocaust where nearly six million Jews lost their lives, yet over ten times that number of innocent babies has been killed.
We strive for the extinction of terrorism while we are the vilest terror to innocent babies. We seek peace and unity but we cannot reconcile with our unborn regeneration. Even the abortionists have engaged in the evil trade of selling baby parts for research to pharmaceutical companies, universities and research institutes.
This evil trade is probably the reason for initiating partial birth abortion procedure. The normal abortion procedures destroy the baby’s body, so the abortionist devised ways of terminating pregnancy without damaging the body parts of the baby because they want to market the parts instead of wasting the entire body. In their dark conscience, they can make almost $2000 per baby depending on the parts ordered. What a dark world, yet we all yearn for change!
Think of it, can a society that kills off its own offspring just for convenience sake really continue to maintain a pervasively loving, peaceful and nurturing spirit toward its children in general? I think not! The temperament that calls for abortion on demand cannot annul itself from the source of evil that plagues our societies today. This is really ugly, killing your own son or daughter to solve your problem is even worst than the proclaimed ancient ritualism.
Ask yourself, what if you were aborted, what if you were removed from womb the very moment your conception was noticed. Your mother was very gracious and unselfish; she did not condemn you to death rather provided all necessary nutrients for your healthy growth and development but now we have the impudence to sit and execute capital judgment on the innocent for the sake of pleasure seeking and egotistical reasons.
Truly I say unto you, be it pregnancy resulting from rape or incest or that you are emotionally unprepared to enter parenthood, call it a casual sexual relationship with no prospect of marriage, diagnosis of abnormalities that may result to problems after birth or call it an abortion to survive pregnancy.
Whatever maybe your terminology or reason, you are only but redefining evil. Get it clearer; an abortion for whatsoever reason is nothing but a human sacrifice to the god of self. That a baby is not convenient for you or you do not want it, you are too young, you cannot afford it, it is a girl but you wanted a boy is just the epitome of pure human selfishness and wickedness; a tragic truth about our evil excuses for murder. We seem to have forgotten that unwanted pregnancies are most often the result of sex that was wanted..............They are nothing but legalized Murders!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 4:49 AM CST
Live by Wit and Not Wallet!
…………..If men of much financial magnitude had ended up miserably and with no confidence in wealth, surely something must be wrong with their goals and with what people believe success to be, even if only temporary. An excessive preservation of life usually ends in frustration and disappointment.
Being rich is bad only when one is limited and focused to his resources, profits and investments because once the wealth is gone, his life becomes empty, frustrating, devoid of wit and inventiveness. Everything in him including his environment goes under the drain.
We have read it all that by only focusing on acquiring wealth, every other aspects of your life might be taken for granted. Possibly, your family may be breaking apart, your marriage might be suffering tremendously and you rarely spend time with yourself, wife and kids. As a matter of fact, it is either you are temporarily separated or divorced from your human-self. Like some folks have abandoned their family, wife and kids far down Africa and live abroad in quest of money and things that can never last.
Such separation is evil and the divorce is a destructive conclusion of self-inflicted pain. Pains caused by your excessive quest to get as much as you can with little control over your weaknesses or excesses. You’ve totally ignored the niche you were carved for-evidently on the wings of more quests. When a man deprives himself of the humanity in him and resort to that of a controlled machine run by every buzz in order to make riches, when he lives like a robot, ordered and directed by the demands of his work and pursuant of wealth, he becomes separated from his real self. The humanity in him is gone and has been sacrificed to the pursuit of things that will waste away or run out of his control because he never at any time built the real humanity in him to achieve any meaningful feat other than riches that always fail. His environment is totally ignored, let the roof be on fire or the kids be drowning, he doesn’t care. He is a slave to money and wealth, he works hard for money and he depends on his job for a living.
Worst still, his expenses are more or just equal to his income, and his debts are more or just equal to your assets. He doesn’t have time and money enough for doing things he like to, eventually if he loses his job; he can’t sustain his lifestyle. When he drops dead, his wealth like a burnt tissue paper will mixed up with winds and fly away. Such lifestyle, including the pervasive advice from advertisers, banks and advisors, is extremely persuasive in convincing you that you are a servant to money and are in no way closer the meaning of true successfulness.
Sometimes, your little kindness, your words of encouragement, arms to the destitute will go a long way in creating positive ripple effect more than millions of money piled up in savings. Bill Gates is a very successful man because he is the richest person in the world and everybody knows that. However, I can also say that my grandfather was a very successful man even though he was a poor man. My grandfather had no money but he was everybody's friend and he died a happy man. He left no silver and he left no gold but his words still live and everybody smiles once they hear his name. You should live by wit not by wallet.