Let Life flow more naturally ...At times, the harder we try ... the more we dont find...
Filipina but also naturalized Swedish citizen, fluent in English & Swedish plus barebones Spanish, college grad., well travelled, rooted in the Philippines but mainly lives in Mexico .... a darn good cook, likes gardening, writing my own romantic verses/poems ... a homebody who prefers cozy home life but also occassional travel & adventure, when possible. Enjoys being out in nature, leisurely bicycle rides, snorkeling, loves ANIMALS (dogs, cats, and everything in b/w) , and playing the PIANO (classical & contemporary) . Nowadays, gotten into regular standing YOGA / PILATES for seniors (60+ yo) for flexibility & strengthening through stretching .
I try to be openminded on some things but generally lean towards being a bit on the conservative side.
NOT merely looking for Email /Chat friends, Friends w/ Benefits, intimate encounter, or somebody to do “ SEXTING” with ... I’m okay with using personal email, HANGOUTS, FB MESSENGER , SKYPE , and Whatsapp.
Some of the things l believe in and try to live by, in my very own words ......
* Rather the harshness of TRUTH ... than the fragrance of a LIE ...
* We eventually choose the yardstick by which we live by and be the person that we become, so BELIEVE in it and STAND UP for it ... and DONT succumb to the pressure from those who can neither understand nor accept it.
* For those who accept the person that YOU are ... w/o having to fully understand you... little to no explanations are necessary... But for those who misjudge you for who they think you are... no amount of explanations will never suffice ...
And if you have NO PHOTO... NO REPLY w/o exception.
If possible, even if you're normally not into poetry... kindly check out my poems which I have posted here... as they reflect me in such a way without resorting to direct descriptions...
There is NO " perfect" ... only the RIGHT one for each ... and NOT necessarily the "best" on paper ... But also, one's rock & safe haven ... the very first one to care , protect and defend ... instead of the ego ruining it to a sorry end ......
CAUCASIAN .... 60-75 yrs old .... Already RETIRED ... OR planning soon to be. As I am very allergic to cigarette smoke ( but cigars are ok, for some reason) , So only NON-SMOKER ... SOCIAL SMOKER ... or seriously TRYING TO QUIT, please ... .. Tries to maintain a sensibly healthier lifestyle without being fanatical about it ... Someone who WILL find or make the time to pursue a longterm/marriage relationship....
Laid back attitude with a good dose of humor but still responsible where it counts , not rigid & overly structured in his life ... loves animals... likes private moments with his mate whether at home ... on the beach or outdoors in nature ...
Believes in two-way open communication ... Someone REALLY ready to move on with his personal life ... NOT looking for just a weekend/occassional girlfriend ... "Friend with Benefits" .... nor a subservient .... but truly searching for his lifetime partner on equal footing.
As for money & love SCAMMERS , NEITHER will I ever ask for money or anything material from anyone for no amt of material need is worth degrading myself for. In short, NO intention to be a gold digger OR somebody’s SUGAR MOMMY / MILF (I will just delete or block without even looking more closely) .... Let’s just be DECENT people ... keep things about ourselves REAL and GENUINE...