5 Ways You Can Tell If A Woman Is Desperate

5 Ways You Can Tell If A Woman Is Desperate

Desperation isn't an attractive quality in the woman you're dating. A woman like this will revolve her life around you and your budding relationship. Here are five signs that the woman you're dating is probably desperate.

1. She texts constantly

If the woman you are seeing texts you all the time, even when she's at work or other events that would keep most people occupied, you are probably dealing with a desperate woman. If she sends numerous texts before you've even had a chance to reply, she is probably insecure and needs to be reassured often. She will attempt to obtain this reassurance by demanding texts from you and ignoring the fact that you also have a job, meetings, and other people to communicate with throughout the day.

2. She doesn't value her own time

If the woman you are seeing is quick to agree to plans or reaarange her schedule to suit yours, she is desperate. It's fine if this happens now and then, but if it's a habit, she doesn't respect her time as much as she respects yours. She may be afraid that if she says no you'll make plans with someone else. A woman who isn't desperate won't feel the need to cater to your schedule all the time. She won't break plans with friends if you are suddenly free to see her, but a woman who is desperate will.

3. She talks about your future together

If you haven't been dating a woman for very long and she's excited to make future plans, this is a sign of desperation. She might have a strong desire to have a long-term relationship, get married, or have kids. If she is desperate, she may push to meet each others parents, plan vacations, or make large purchases together. This type of woman will try to force relationships to become serious before you're ready.

4. She stalks you on social media

A woman who social media stalks you is likely doing so in order to keep tabs on you because she is insecure and overly eager to be part of your life. If she confronts you about your social media use, what you post, and who you communicate with, this is a sign of desperation. She will think that your time is better spent texting or calling her because she wants to be the center of your life.

5. She abandons her lifestyle for yours

A woman who is willing to abandon her beliefs, opinons, and lifestyle for yours is a woman who is desperate to be in a relationship. A woman who isn't desperate knows she doesn't need to cling to your lifestyle in order to make you like her, but a woman who is will consider it the way to your heart. It might seem flattering that a woman is willing to give up everything for you, but it won't make for a very interesting relationship. This type of woman will agree with everything you say, do and want, without offering any input of her own.

A woman who is desperate will always be available and always be happy to please you. She will require a lot of time and attention because she is insecure and needs to be the focus of your life.

Comments (5)

Yael1956
Deperate Desperate......and I thought it was love...or could it a form of control mixed with insecurity...Not knowing the boundaries. applause
itsimpossible
"This type of woman will agree with everything you say, do and want, without offering any input of her own.
A woman who is desperate will always be available and always be happy to please you."

hmmm, sounds like the perfect woman......
THELEMAGE
i do'nt find it desperate - that some women really want to be with the man they love & just can"t live without - that's real-love to want to be with someone every minute of the day for the rest of your lives -together (soul-mates)heart wings yay
flyme1
Yes I can put myself in this womens shoes.
I am desperate because of my age (retired)plenty of time on my hands and alone .
To be with somebody for company ,finacial,work load ,shopping.arguing,play card games or outside games, go to the beach eat together ,sleep together, cuddle ,kiss, hold hands when walking.

Yes Put me down as desperate any day.

Come on girls I,m DESPERATE .

Flyme1.
CraftySquirrel
oh darn, I am guilty of a few of these at times. I guess it must come off as desperate then. blues

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