Why Most Men Get Scammed!!!

by mayor007
category: Dating

Sex is one of the simplest reasons why most men are scammed; it is not really that they seek love. No, most don’t seek love. They want to import a “sex slave girl”, they want to import beauty and not good heart. Someone they can order around, someone who they thought is not civilized or Americanized. A housemaid, a cook, a cleaner, someone not so exposed and a sexual mechanical tool. Someone who will be submissive to every single word and command because they know very well that they cannot control western ladies, so they seek love beyond territories of “I know my human right and I have my Lawyer” and at that they get blinded to simple formulae of establishing love relationship which must be in the hand of Time.   

Come to think of it, how will I think of loving someone I haven’t met in person, that’s stupidity; do I know if she has AIDS or some other venerable diseases? A true emotion ignites while I am looking into her eyes face to face, holding her hands and when I might have spent time with her in so many dinner outings, watching movie together or some other fun thrillers. Chatting online and talking on phone may not necessarily be enough to ascertain her likes and dislikes. I will need to meet this person face to face and since this is what I wanted so much, tradition demands that I should go and meet her, possibly see her family formally and not trying to steal their daughter through the back door. Well, if you think that I am wrong please pen me……  One Love!!!
mayor007
Shanghai, Beijian China
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islander7 Presque Isle, Maine USA
Mon Jun 29, 2009 5:24 PM CST
Excellent article!
colorgirl09 Middle, Tennessee USA
Fri Jul 3, 2009 6:16 PM CST
Interesting point of view. You are an honorable man.
mayor007 Shanghai, Beijian China
Fri Jul 3, 2009 8:32 PM CST
Thank you for your warm support.peace
inafunk reno, Nevada USA
Thu Aug 13, 2009 5:12 AM CST
the internetis by nature a scam if you are serge brin it is fagulous if you are an ordinary person like everyoneon thi site you are scammed apriori-look everyoneis different- i am only interested in love- however women are only interestedin their children and pets so- you cannot win as a psychiatrist, iam predicinting a global gay revolution by 2020 since if you remember themusic of the 60;s where men adored females that time in history is over- it is just about sex now- go to craigislist if thatis your thing and it will surpirse youhow may female want onenighters it is getting out of hand doctoriragruber
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valroose cape town, Cape Town South Africa
Thu Aug 13, 2009 7:03 AM CST
That is very true...and I have met someone on this site who wanted to scam me, but I managed to report him...so ladies and gents...keep a watch out for those money hungry people who will do just about anything to get into your wallet and bank account...DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR BANK DETAILs TO ANYONE, unless you feel like Father Christmas. lol scold
Amenda shenyang, Fuzhu China
Sat Aug 15, 2009 3:07 AM CST
I heard a lot lovers across countries had sex when they meet for the first time. It's really dangerous, just like you said in your articles. who knows if they have Aids or not. I met a lot this kind of men online. They come to China is only for fresh sex instead of finding true love. I'll never fall in love with a man unless spend enough time with him. just like you said face to face or see his familly etc. That's why some men said I'm too picky. That's why I can't find a ideal man though I can speak some English. But I just regard process as the result. I enjoy surfing on this website. I don't care too much if I can find him or not. or I would be unhappy.

So in certain sense, some silly women with low IQ also get scammed in fact. or maybe those women don't think that are scammed. Who knows!

When a cat play a ball, how can we know if cat play ball or ball play cat?
roxen77 Milne Bay Papua New Guinea
Tue Sep 8, 2009 1:07 AM CST
I think that you are right about meeting someone and knowing what they are really like in person. This does not encourage us to meet someone online does it? But could there be honest people who are in for an interest and experience they would like to share with others and find the right match maybe? Some are looking for love outside cant find that right one they search online. For the westernised woman I agree a little but there is one disadvantage that makes woman become submissive and become sex slaves dont you think. A working and educated woman would be confident about herself and have a high selfesteem and money to take care of herself. She would not be submissive then a woman who comes from a poor background and does not have anything to support herself rather submit to the man that can provide for her. Its is the type of lifestyle that gives a woman her confidence and power to control herself avoiding abuse. You dont have to look outside most times and give that woman right in front of you some happiness and confidence that she can say what she feels inside that she has the right to say what she feels in the relationship with her. Communication is lack rather its the mans desire that count most times for vulnerable woman. For that thanks for the thought you brought up there. I really like it and wish some others can share what they think so we can compare out thoughts.
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Thu Sep 10, 2009 11:59 AM CST
Men get scammed because their alot more desperate than women! Women are much more likely to lead with their brains when evaluating risk and not with the contents of thier underwear. Plus,women are more intelligent than men,i'm sorry to say!!!!
vampirekoala daegu South Korea
Sat Oct 24, 2009 12:33 AM CST
Mate, I'm penning you because I agree with you whole heartedly.
Well written!!!cheers
mayor007 Shanghai, Beijian China
Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:31 AM CST
Thank you!cheers
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