Does Real Love exist??????

by alexguitar
category: Dating
Many of you would say, yes indeed, I'd say no. It's easy to believe love exists because of movies like Twilight or The Notebook. They are just movies. I don't wanna sound negative but nowadays love is understood from a different point of view. When I fall in love deeply, I give 100%, If I gonna do something, I do it right. That might be the problem, giving the best of you, giving everything is a lethal weapon; I really believe no woman is in the same page I am. What's wrong being romantic? What's wrong calling your girlfriend when you feel bad or depressed because you had a terrible day at work and need some support? What's wrong thinking of driving at 7am on a weekday to her place and handing her her favorite cup of coffee from Starbucks as a surprise ??Having a relationship when everything is romance it might sounds awsome but real love is shown when the couple is going trhu problems and the key is to work them out together. Many times I think love is not for me due the fact women are not in the same page I am, among some other million of reasons. Im not perfect and nobody is, you must remember when you are in a relationship there's must be balance all the time. For ex: if you are on top of details, if you call her when she's sick, if you are there for here when she might feel down for anything, you'd expect kind of the same thing from her to you. Im not trying to say we must give thinking we must always receive. It's about common sense and justice. When you give 100% of your heart to someone, your girlfriend must do the same on her way of course otherwise, there's not a balance and the relationship will fall apart sooner or later. Life is so unffair but I guess there's nothing you can do. I've been criticised so much for being a romantic man and for giving all my best and sweet feelings when I fall in love. Guess what???? I don't give a s... what other people think, Im a honest man, romantic and the woman who wants to be with me must like it and live with it the same way I'd accept her character, but please stop playing with our feelings and dreams. i thought my hapiness arrived to my life but I was wrong, everything was a dream I woke up, I am alone again. I don't pretend to be dramatic and if I am, I don't give a d.... Im pretty sure million of men are wondering the same: Why a devoted man like me got this ending???? I was always loyal to her, never lied, I was a gentelman, I'll never understand it, if someone has the answer please let me know , I have so much love to give and no woman gets it, no woman appreciate it ! Thanks for reading!
Alexguitar
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Comments


mayor007 Shanghai, Beijian China
Sun Aug 9, 2009 5:26 AM CST
Buddy, you sound like one who just had a broken relationship. I am sorry about that; but here is the kicker, until we learn how to choose wisely, love will continue to a flight of the imagination.
sweet_saucy2008 Northwest, Tennessee USA
Sun Aug 9, 2009 9:23 AM CST
I have never met someone like yourself who feels the way that you do about love. I would always be the one to give more than 100% and get less than 25% in return. It has either been bad choices or slim pickins.

Anything I could dream of doing would be stomped on in an effort to stop me from fulfilling what I wanted to do. I am intelligent, friendly, and still willing to give love a chance if it comes along again.

I can relate very well to what you are saying. peace
southmiami Tampa, Florida USA
Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:03 AM CST
I totally agree with you.
Love is not a one way street but there is always one that gives more than the other.
There has to be some kind of balance to really make a relationship work because it won't be fair then.
That's why communication is so important from the begining and see the expectations from one another, don't dig to deep into your next relationship, be patient, be friends get to know each other more.
See if that is the right person for you as it will be for her.
Not many men believe in love like you do and want to expose themselves as you do.
Good luck!
Amenda shenyang, Fuzhu China
Sat Aug 15, 2009 2:44 AM CST
Real love do exsist, but not easy to find.
Be patient, you will find one.

Good luck
ladymargaret tipperary, Tipperary Ireland
Sun Aug 16, 2009 6:03 PM CST
margaret,well i am 46just couple of days ago,all my life i have given 1oo% but i find men to take advantage of you,why is that,i dont understand at this stage in my life that i will ever find one that is compatible regardssigh
friends4now Melbourne, Florida USA
Fri Aug 21, 2009 10:58 PM CST
Twilight has given teenage girls the completely wrong view of love. I think true love exists it's just really hard to find-I just quit looking it will come around if it's meant to be
icybluiz Atlantic Beach, North Carolina USA
Thu Aug 27, 2009 2:54 PM CST
The way I know true love exists is watching my parents while growing up. They married after 3 weeks of knowing each other. They have been married 53 years.

They still are there for each other and love spending time with each other, but they also have different hobbies and intrests. For example, my dad likes to go on hunting trips (sometimes to Bolivia). My mother never kicks up a fuss because she knows that is one of his passions. Sure she misses him, but she's glad he's having fun. Same is true of dad. Mom likes to get her four sisters together and go somewhere they've never been. Dad knows she's enjoying herself. It's amazing because they have total trust and honesty between each other.

The also have discussions about current events and always talk to each other after 53 years. To me, that's perfect.
debbie06 manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK
Fri Aug 28, 2009 2:58 AM CST
I completly agree. I dont believe love exists, not anymore. The younger generation (that i am a part of) have spoiled it with drunken antics, game playing, and also the inability to actually stay faithful. Ive had 2 bad relationships and it has dampened my idealistic view of the romantic tale of love. I look at romance from when my parents were dating and you just cant find commitment and grand gestures like it. My parents used to write love letters and my dad waited 3yrs for permission off my grandad to marry my mum. He moved from Scotland with no money and just his record collection to be with her. They are still together after 32 yrs and still love each other unconditionally (abeit they are more comfortable and satisfied) and win the 'Mr and Mrs games' 100% everytime. Nowadays its all bout how many u can 'pull' and friends with benefits. One day i do hope that my cynical view of love will be changed and that i will find love, truthful, faithful, romantic love. But for now, i try to stay clear so i dont get my heart broken.
Good luck to all those who believe they have found their 'love'
xx
WhovianGeneva Geneva, Geneve Switzerland
Mon Aug 31, 2009 2:19 PM CST
It's the problem, if you don't believe that real love exists, you won't find it...

You create your world with your thoughts and beliefs. You have what you want.....

I believe that real love exists, of course I had some big deceptions, even lately, but it has made me stronger and gave me some experience I would not have without it.
Anuna Ulan-Bator Mongolia
Thu Sep 10, 2009 10:07 AM CST
i want believe but i like ur questionheart wings
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