Haven't even got the decency to send a mail saying yes or no.
It's curtious if nothing else.
So..........you look through the profiles of possible targets for your charms and attempts at trying to covince them that you're the one.
What you're unaware of though, is the volume of mail anyone decent on the site is receiving.
It's hundreds a week.
So she or he can sift through them and ignore 98 out of a hundred and reply to the ones they think they're suited too.
If you send short mail you'll almost certainly get blanked. If you say too much detail you'll also get blanked.
So the solution is to carefully read their profiles and target specific thing's they have said.
For example:
"I am a fun loving and kind person who is looking for a real gentleman, (or lady) for a serious relationship and is not to serious. They must be loyal and treat me with respect."
Which would you say are the key words?
I would say it's respect and kind!
The others are general terms that almost everyone puts in their profile.
Even if you hit the right words in your mail to your possible date it's no guarantee that they'll reply.
Don't be fooled into thinking because they have viewed your profile that they must be interested. Not so!
They may have just looked because you made a comment in the forums that irritated them, so their view is one of scorn rather than interest. Or they noticed you in the forums and thought they'd check you.
It would nice if they wrote and said what they thought,wouldn't it?
Even if it was contempt for you. Thats a reply.
So men particularly write to hundreds of women in the hope of receiving one or two reply's. Even then, it's no guarentee!
Other key words in profiles are also worth targeting........Like gardening,kids,pets and so on.
If you just write and say ,"i like your profile" you have more got chance of meeting god than getting any responce from the recipient.
So when you next look through the profiles have a pen with you and write down their interests and the key words to aid you in the battle of wits! Otherwise you could write thousands of pointless emails and may as well
go back to conventional methods used in bars and socialising at different avents.
If you do end back on the street, don't use this one in a bar, " do you come here often?" you'll probably get slapped on the chops if you're a man!