4 Ways To Find Mr. Right

4 Ways To Find Mr Right

Looking for Mr. Right can be a struggle. There are so many Mr. Wrongs to weed through, but don't fret, Mr. Right does exist. Allow yourself time and patience and you will find him. Here are 4 ways to help you find the 'One' that's 'Right' for you.

1. Stop trying to turn frogs into princes

You're trying to find Mr. Right, not create him. When you find a guy who is obviously nothing close to what you're looking for, don't stick around hoping that he will change. Definitely don't stick around with hopes that you can improve him. You cannot change someone else into what you want them to be. Instead of wasting time hoping and waiting, find someone else who is closer to your idea of Mr. Right already.

2. Pay attention

If you think that you have met Mr. Right, keep your eyes open. If he seems to good to be true, he probably is. Mr. Right is not Mr. Perfect. Even the best guy for you will have his flaws. Someone who seems too perfect probably has something to hide. Listen to your gut. If something doesn't feel real, it probably isn't.

3. Be open to meeting new people

The positive thing to come out of ended relationships is that from each one you learn something new. Meeting new people is a wonderful thing. You learn more about what you like and dislike. You learn what kind of people you are able to tolerate and which ones grind your gears. Meeting new people does not mean you need to date them all. You can hang out with men as friends. Every meeting you have with a man doesn't have to revolve around a possible relationship. Of course, to find Mr. Right, you do have to date also. Let the people around you know that you're looking and be open to blind dates. They may not all be successful blind dates, but you can't find a winner if you won't meet anyone at all.

4. Don't change to please anyone

Some women have a tendency to act like chameleons in their relationships. If her boyfriend wants an old-fashioned housewife type, she will morph into that kind of woman. If her next boyfriend is a sports fanatic, suddenly she is as well. While taking an interest in your boyfriend's interests is a good thing, it's not a good thing if you change who you are just to keep him. You can only find your true Mr. Right if you are being your true self.

Finding Mr. Right is possible. You have to be willing to wade through all of the frogs to find him though.

Comments (2)

Semsu
This article is exactly to the point, because men are what they are and they don't change, but in all my experiences with women, there is always first looking like there is many things similar to what I am, but later on they start to show difference and in the end there are a lot of difference.
I understand it now,that they are later coming back to their original, because in the same time they started to change by them self, in the same time they started to demand changes in me and in our relationship.
This has in every case of my earlier relationship, been the reason to a break up.
I think that when women are more cabable for changes, they think that they can also change men to what they want, what is in fact almost impossible...in the same time,when men are more stable in what they are, then they think, that women have to be the same, making a big mistake and geting a huge disappointment, when change operation start.

When somebody ask me, why my earlier relationship broke down, my answer are almost always, that my partner changed to almost opposite, from what she was in beginning,but in fact it looks more, that she just got back to original.

This changing operation is of course bad for both involved and this article give really a good advise,how to go ahead and avoid that problem.

In fact, it is no matter what we are doing in our life, to act as our real self, give potential to succeed much better.
sjena
Iam mister left-handed right !tip hat

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