sological Blog Post: Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:56 PM CST

sological grand rapids, Michigan USA
Posted:Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:56 PM CST

what ever happened to normal?

So many people seem to be going out of there way to stand out and be different, what ever happened to just being whatever comes naturally? If you try to impress somebody with abnormal things you wouldnt normally do it kinda fools them into thinking you are a certain way about things onlyforthem to find out later you are obviously notafter they may have spent time in a relationship, makes no sense to me. I know youve probably heared all that before but does anybody notic that even whn they are aware of it they do it anyway, it seems to be instilled in us for years we were raised on the belief that its ok to fool people and make believe to get what we want even though if you think about it its not even really what you want.




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Humbled kenner, Louisiana USA
Wed Nov 11, 2009 5:09 AM CST
One thing that i have found is that you have to be yourself-dont be what someone else thinks you should be-ifs its always doing things to impress others or social acceptence then you are setting up for failure-its not about them and remember that -i tell my kids to pick who they want to be friends with, dont let them choose you.

Be who you are not what you think your friends think you should be.

Humbled
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Nuliiiiiii Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Wed Nov 11, 2009 1:11 PM CST
Hmmmmmmmmm i think been FULLY dressed on profile pics is NORMAL dont u Sol??wave wave grin
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Looking4theOnly1 Fernandina Beach, Florida USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 1:20 AM CST
wave Hi! Really? I'm old and i was thinkn it must be the other way round! (more youngins...lol..;)
laugh I think your profile is good. I like a sense of humor! And, i think i understand you wanting to show all the pix of your son! You're a 'proud daddy' right? thumbs up But if my 'senior moment' memory serves me..you dont really have but maybe one pic that we can actually see 'You' in it..Maybe take a few good pix just of you..plainclothes..sans helmet, etc..and delete the one in the ice cream shop? Just a suggestion! PS: Not only yOnthis day..Veterans Day, but every day, I want to thank you for doing what you do for 'Us' all!! cheering applause applause

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