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lol, apparently nearly every lady I've contacted at this site missed the manners class at school. They are saving you time and effort in their non-reaction though, honestly, you wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't even have the common courtesy to respond with something, even it it is no thanks.

Ever tried sending a no thanks message?, I used to, but gave up after the abuse that was returned.

this is a real problem .... .. for me... i have found any reply begins a conversation... no reply is the silence of rejection... but final ...so to speak ..definitive....

i am looking for one particular person , to spend the rest of my life with... and not just to enjoy life and set up future dates and romances

silence is not disrespect....... please do not take it that way.

disrespect is when they reply and toy with your heart

love to you ...

phoenixrising1

I think Mr Phoenix makes a fair point. The meaning of a 'no reply' is surely quite obvious.

Yes, many times politeness is rewarded with abuse. So, most times people do not reply at all. Especially if they feel the person did not read and respect their profile before emailing them.

Hello everyone,,I've sent many messages to many women on this site but unfortunatly only maybe 5% replied to me,I've always been polite and I'm looking for a woman to have a long term relationship but is very hard when you hardly get any replies,I think that the people that don't even reply to a message shouldn't even be on this site,,,what for??? if they don't have the courtesy to at least say,,no thank you,,or you are not my type,,or whatever,,but at least show some manners to those who are truly looking for love,,I believe that there are many people that just like to read profiles and play games,,,anyways thank you for reading my comment,,bye Giuliano

An answer isnt necessary . The sender can just pick out another hundred poseurs, weirdos, and people light years away to have fun with.

Hello hombreo9,

Thanks that you share my opinion .I meant the same, but nobody that replied before you got me correctly as they are for having fun. I just winder how boring life I'd have offline to look for a fun online
I'd be glad to get to know you,if you don't mind (if you like my profile also)and if you are still available. I promise ,I'll reply.

sorry, that you seem to feel that way, but if you don't like (some of) the replies that you receive, then don't ask questions like this. Would suggest that you post this on the IF, and see just how many people agree with me.

Well....I agree that a "no reply" is a silent gesture of demonstrating a "NOT Interested" answer, here on CS. And I think a widely accepted and practised silent code of conduct at CS that most people understand.

Quite contrary to the real life though. But it's way better than a rude reply. I think a no reply saves you from losing grace.

There is ONLY ONE code of Decency and Good -Manners, bith on-line and off-line. I am so sorry for those that can't get what I mean. Being Decent and Good -mannerd is not an easy stuf that Few people have a gift for.It comes from inside.......

two of us have already enlightened you, as to what sometimes happens in return for being polite.

"There is ONLY ONE code of Decency and Good -Manners, bith on-line and off-line". Sounds slightly arrogant, doesn't it ? As previously mentioned, if you think there is only one possible answer to a question I cannot see the point of posting a blog in the first place. But if your "hello" messages are so friendly then maybe thats the reason for the poor response.

Thank you for being so gentle and kind with the asking and wondering of people that is prety new for CS ( the blogging at all ). I shall know quite well how I have to treat the people form CS from now on....... World goes too badly . Feel sorry for that