men women in general

angeleyes61 Blog Post: Thu Nov 12, 2009 10:47 AM CST

angeleyes61 stuart, Virginia USA

Posted:Thu Nov 12, 2009 10:47 AM CST

men,women in general

Hi ,this is for Becky and anybody else that is intrested to know,WHY ARE ALL THE GOOD PEOPLE TAKEN.Life as we know can be a trip.We ladies fall in love much to quick.I personally feel that a mans love is totally different from ours.Some of us are all to ready to believe what a man tells us even if we have doubts.Depending on your past life experiences some attention is better than none and guys can spot that in a woman.We wear our hearts on our sleeves and that an't good.Yeah its some guys out there who does it too but watch out when you run across one like that because for some reason he starts to feel like if he can't have you then no one can and then he messes you up for life or take your life.And believe me when I say that all of the good ones are not taken.I have had relationships with married men thinking that I was all that because I had some womans husband not realizing that what he did to her that he would also do to me.And if you think about how you would feel if your heart got tore up from the floor up by a man that you loved.How do you think that the wife feels.Love to me is true commitment about everything not just what makes only you happy.Now all that women and men alike want to do is use people for their own advantage regardless of how it affects you.I hope that I am not the only one knows that there is no better love making in the world than when two people really love one another.You are going to give all that you have and then some more.Sex just to do it an't where its at for me,I have to be able to look in to his eyes and he look in mine and at that point the world belongs to us and what is happening at that moment.And when it is over we can still lie there and hold each other.It has been a very long time since I have felt that magic and it is mostly because of lack of honesty and respect.If you are only looking for a booty call just tell the truth.You are two consenting adults and yes or no shouldn't be to difficult to say.What do you think.I really would like to know.

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Michael211_2000 Houston, Texas USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:11 PM CST

Be careful... you sound like "damaged goods" already. If you are seeing underlying motives in every man you meet, then you are in fact damaged goods and you'll never find love. Some of us guys would just like to have a nice dinner and movie date with you, to talk and get to know you... maybe go rollerblading on a pretty Fall weekend or something. Judge people by their actions, and not the actions of people you've known before! That's all I'm saying.

- Michael

angeleyes61 stuart, Virginia USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:16 PM CST

I was only stating facts.If.Why do I have to sound like damaged goods because of that!Some of you people are weird as hell.

angeleyes61 stuart, Virginia USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:18 PM CST

I was only stating facts..Why do I have to sound like damaged goods because of that!Some of you people are weird as hell.I love men but the truth is what it is.I am not dishing any of you.

jen1003 Fayetteville, Georgia USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:28 PM CST

I don't think you sound like damaged goods. I think you have trust issues which all of us do really, it's nothing new. The fact that you have had relationships with married men only makes your trust issues worst. Just remember males think with logic, females think with emotion. I dont believe every male is looking for a booty call but rather whatever happens happens. Meaning if you're hot and yall have nothing in common they are going to try to get into your pants regardless. Not saying this about every male but rather the ones that show you that all they are looking for is a booty call when you didn't know it to begin with.

calmheartseeks Fullerton, California USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 7:23 PM CST

If a guy tells "the truth" to a woman, "I am looking for a booty call," he knows that that will diminish his chances by almost 100 percent, unless the woman feels the same. Odds are she doesn't if he feels he has to lie to her. I agree with a lot that you say, but because people are selfish their own desires will probably continue to motivate them. The good thing is now you know what you want, and you won't settle for less.

witness2all palos heights, Illinois USA
Thu Nov 12, 2009 11:15 PM CST

You have to look at a countries society and its values and behaviors.If you take a child and do not expose him to telivision or the secular things of society and give him a clean pure lifestyle he will be and act differently then someone who is exposed to the corruption and degradation of the secular society.We are exposed to a lot of bad,and toxic material in our society and this reflects in the the dating scene and marriage as well.

Shalom,
Kevin

maxmate Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Sat Nov 14, 2009 3:35 AM CST

Well.....couldn't agree with you more. Ironically, this trust deficit is becoming bigger with the passage of time. Having said that, still, I believe there is hope. The magic is there and I believe there are people in this world experiencing it.

rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA
Sat Nov 14, 2009 4:57 PM CST

angeleyes61: "Sex just to do it an't where its at for me,I have to be able to look in to his eyes and he look in mine and at that point the world belongs to us and what is happening at that moment.And when it is over we can still lie there and hold each other.It has been a very long time since I have felt that magic and it is mostly because of lack of honesty and respect.If you are only looking for a booty call just tell the truth.You are two consenting adults and yes or no shouldn't be to difficult to say.What do you think.I really would like to know."

I think you are not alone. From reading repetitive forum posts from men and internal correspondence with women on this site, there are many that feel as you do. There are many that are looking for a real connection and bond with someone, not just a fling and sexual self satisfaction. Don't give up your search, there are many people that are looking for honesty, respect, and a real connection first.

I have never gotten involved with a married woman and never will. As a divorcing man myself I have tremendous respect for those who ignore me but also love those who understand me and offer their friendship but keep their distance.

If I may suggest, look for friendship. Keep making connections and socializing with people and look for the men that truly want your friendship. A true friend will accept you for who you are without judgment, will be honest with you and respect you. From this pool of friends a true love can be born and nurtured for a true connection and ultimately a strong bonding intimacy.

Good luck and God bless!!