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I would not believe it, you are lucky you can see how he is, I bet you will start to get messages from him in a few days apologising for how he acted, and saying his son is all better. I know a guy who threatened to kill a woman and her kids in a rant like your describing, guess what they made up and got married a couple of months later. Then divorced the same year, so it is possible you and him could have some unusual violent relationship, but you have to decide what to do it is your life.

wow definately sounds like a selfish guy.Although something supposebly happened to him he should have considered your feelings as well. I would just leave him alone all together even if he does try to contact you again, he sounds psycho.

Thank you guys, for your comments...
No, I don't think I could have a violent kind of relationship,I'm a Christian and don't say B-words at all. I'll be praying for his son and for him, too. If I was in an accident, I'm pretty sure my daughter would have communicate with him...
Well, let's see what's gonna happen from here...

Is this the first and only time he has talked to you like this? If it was a one shot outburst because he was upset about his son, you might understand the unusual circumstances, but if he just gets this way when angry, I think you should see the signs. My guess is it will happen again, but I don't know the dynamics between you or the full scenario of the relationship. I hope all works out for the best.

I would have to agree that he could have made a better decision, but then again, maybe you could have too?

Living in the age of technology as we are, it can really affect the way we act. In long distance (even short distance) relationships, people often get overly worried and make unwarranted accusations or comments when someone doesn't respond to them within their often unreasonable idea of a 'reasonable amount of time'.

All too often, I leave my phone at home accidentally, and then when I do get home, I find messages that escalate in the same fashion.. 'Hey..', 'Where you at?', '....hello?!', 'If you don't want to talk to me....', etc, etc.

Things happen, and its important to realize that! Yes, ideas of concern and worry come to mind, but so often it is something as simple as having a dead battery. Or, sometimes, the person you're interested in hearing from is injured, and wants to talk to you, but can't, and then you have something like this...

Please remember, if his situation is real, he -was- just in a serious accident, and also his son has been as well. Give him a little time, and see where it goes from there.

Put yourself in his shoes, and see how bad it might hurt to be called a jerk because you're laying in a hospital bed worrying about whether your child is going to live or not.

(If he blew up, he blew up, and that may not be excusable either, but at least consider his reasons. And maybe, if you're a Christian, you can forgive him.)

Thank you guys, your comments are helping me a lot...
We were falling for each other, I'm not kind a controller, he is the one if I don't text him back in "time", he always say...:"o.k., seems u r so busy now, have a great day..."or suddenly finish a conversation when he get mad...we've been talking about that and he was doing much better.He is so nice, like to show how much he cares about me, sending me e-cards and offline msgs, but we have a lack of communication by phone, because I can not understand what he is talking about...I'm from Brazil, I can talk with a lot of people with no problem, but with him...I don't know if it's because he is from PA or it's just him...but we start chatting on web cam just a while before everything happened and we loved each other.
Yes, I already forgave him, but in his mind, I'm the one that have to apologize him. I'm gonna contact him just to ask about his son and let him know how sorry I am about everything...

Well, when you posted last time I thought it was a little precipitate to start deciding he was dumping you. I have had stuff happen to me and I could not get back to someone. Seems you both might want to cool it. maybe not get so charged up if something like that happens again. Stuff happens you know.

But then again, some people lie a lot too.

Oh, and by the way, when someone has a trauma happen, seriously, they are not thinking about missing a phone call. Really. Think about it. If the accident really happened, you insulted him horribly on top of a traumatic event. I promise you, I would be highly pssd off if it was me and I would drop anyone that did that kind of drama to me. But I am rather mean anyway.

So...what hospital is his son at in ICU? I mean if you wanted to send flowers or something...
Did you try and call him at all? As far as being important to him and somebody else he knows would let you know - how many of his friends do you know?
I've got very good friends that if I died some of them would never know what happened to me because my family doesn't even know they exist to contact them!

Thank you for all the comments.
He told me he was unconscious and just replaced his phone minutes before texted me...
he sent me a pic from his broken leg and foot...told me his face is messed up...didn't want to show me. He apologizes about his language but not about what he think about what I said...
We've been talking a lot since then...he always asked me to go there to see him, he offered to pay my tickets., but now, he said for me to wait a little, not sure he wants me to see him the way he is right now...

Medsummer, I was thinking the same thing awhile ago. If something happened to me, some of my friends would never find out either as my family does not know them.