christlover Blog Post: Fri Nov 13, 2009 4:07 PM CST

christlover Altamonte Springs, Florida USA
Posted:Fri Nov 13, 2009 4:07 PM CST

CHAPTER # 3...HE CONTACTS ME AFTER ALL...

Hello, friends.
This is looking like a Mexican Novel or what?
Well, last night I sent a text msg to him, asking about his son and of course about him. I'm gonna let you know everything, in details...

11:57am
Mr.K: Hi, he's doing o.k. i guess, he has fractured skull, and a lot of other injuries, as do I. But, the doctors think he should be fine in time.I have a punctured lung, 3 broken ribs, a broken leg and foot. And other minor stuff. My car of course was totalled.The woman ran a red light and hit me in drivers door, and the impact flipped my car.

Me: Thank you for let me know...I'm so glad to hear about your son. Wish i could be there taking care of you.

Mr.K : Yea, that would be nice, but it'll never happen!!

Me: Don't worry, I know i'm not welcome...not gonna surprise u by visiting u...

Mr.K: Never said u weren't welcome!Just with the "shit" u said and thought, still doesn't sit well with me, very shocked coming from u!!But,showed me how u truly r!!

Me: Showed me how u r, too. Never heard some many B-words at once in my entire life...u used to get mad at me when I didn't text u back in time...I was almost a week without any signal from u and only asking about what happened...I couldn't believe that u r a jerk...if something had happened to me, somebody from my relationship was certainly let "U" know, because everybody knows about "K"... but of course I never was part of ur life, who is gonna remember about to let me know?If that happened, I was there with u as soon as I could...

It was exactly 1:08pm...still didn't hear from him, since then.

I really appreciate all your comments...

What you guys "REALLY' think about all that?

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Fri Nov 13, 2009 4:39 PM CST
I think it is better you found out how he is sooner than later, maybe he just acts like a baby and feels sorry for himself too much.
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calmheartseeks Fullerton, California USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:01 PM CST
I think it's not going to work out (at least happily). No one likes being called a jerk (even if they are), and accusing each other only makes more bad feelings. What should have occurred is you gave him the benefit of the doubt when you didn't hear from him, and he didn't lay into you afterwards without forgiveness.

The point is, what do YOU think? Is this the type of relationship you expect? Believe me, you can have a better one. But we first need to be the better half ourselves.

I'm sorry it got this way...my suggestion if you want to keep trying is to change your attitude (leave out name calling or blaming). If he does not do the same, it's up to you to decide if you want to be treated that way.

Wishing you all the best!
teddybear
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mjames napa, California USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:25 PM CST
I think this is ridiculous; why are you even wasting one second in this situation;

This is exactly what I jmean; people constantly go through these drmatic and pointless situations that are extremely fishy at best, and then in the end they won't move on.

Move on or get used to it; good luck.

I go by peoples actions; and if someone treated me this way I'd blow them off; some though like drama; this is a train wreck; move on.
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mjames napa, California USA
Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:25 PM CST
I think this is ridiculous; why are you even wasting one second in this situation;

This is exactly what I jmean; people constantly go through these drmatic and pointless situations that are extremely fishy at best, and then in the end they won't move on.

Move on or get used to it; good luck.

I go by peoples actions; and if someone treated me this way I'd blow them off; some though like drama; this is a train wreck; move on.
ivegotsexappeal christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand
Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:55 PM CST
based on the that. it dont look good at all. He might be a jerk but telling him that will put him right off even if you didnt mean it love. Im not sayin its your fault , just that it hasnt gotten off to a good start thats all

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