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I think that happens to most people on these kind of sites. If someone writes to you and they are completely 'not' who you are looking for, for whatever reason, just by writing back you are, in a way, saying 'Hello I am interested" even if you're not What can ya do......IF someone does not write back I would speculate he or she just doesn't think you are who they are looking for and doesn't know how to tell you. Don't take anything that happens here on CS personally. Then again I could be wrong....I usually am

there are a lot of good people on this site ...the rude ones we must accept as they have a right to be here ...till they cross the line ... scammers we need to police and report... just keep sending mail and keep your eyes open... take your time and male it last ...good luch darling

I was wiped out of a profile I had for two years here because of objectively approaching this issue, and comparing this site with other dating sites in terms of responses and social interaction. I was not attempting to promote any of the other sites, but to have a meaningful discussion meant to place the issue on the table, and even laugh at the coagulated responses.....

Read my blog about "Dragon Slayers" to get a better idea what happened to me....

In treading lightly here, I read a recent survey that revealed only about 29% of of all messages on dating sites are ever responded to.... Thats pretty lousy odds really.... The problem with mails is that they take so long to get an answer, and when one never comes its pretty discouraging......

Personally, I like to take an IM approach to the dating site.... First off, noone can get away with tailored mailings that are intended to candy coat a persons true personality and characteristics.... its all right there... on the spot and in real time....its very similiar to actually meeting someone in a regular social setting.... The problem with IM?... Alot of women turn it off... thinking it is intrusive.... and never participate in its use, when in actuality, it can be the most exhilerating and useful tool in getting to know someone.....

If everyone worked together to promote a more ethical practice of responsibility to their fellow prospective partners, maybe the situation will improve..... but i doubt it.... there isn't the type of social interaction that places pressure on people to respond cordially like in a real life situation..... its too easy to hide behind a cyber wall, with no accountability....

I asked the same questions and many people respond 'oh don't worry about it...'

But in reality sites like this boast that one can meet the person they are looking for from the safety of having a LCD monitor and keyboard. Eliminates the stuttering, or emotional letdowns that some people face in the real world of going outside to meet people.

Are the profiles fake or are the people behind them just so shallow and rude that they expect someone to keep trying to at least get noticed for either rejection or acceptance.

There is no true explanation as to why many people act in this manner. In my view if you really are not looking for anyone then hide your profile that way it would save time for those of us truly trying to find someone special for our lives...