Posted:Tue Mar 9, 2010 11:17 AM CST
corny mesgs by men on profile reviews of women!
Your profile looks awesome to me, really. You seem like a woman whom knows exactly what she wants. Thats awesome. Most people can't say that about themselves...or they aren't that narrow :P So, with the great profile and the AWESOME pics... I'm sure you'll do fine.
you look very sexy and nice but a slut no. he was wishful thinking and trying to bring you down so he could have some control of you. imo you look nice, don't worry.
You look hot, not slutty! Some men have no respect for women, he was probably talking to his blow up doll as he typed.... Good luck in your search, don't change a thing!
e waz a jackazz. he obviously didnt kno wat he waz talkin bout. n truthfully i dnt really like whit girls but u r beautiful. n when ever someone hates on u remember this {THE MOST HATED IS THE MOST IMMITATED}
No, you look gorgeous - a beautiful sexy girl still experimenting self-consciously with her look, especially if there is a camera there. You are going to be a stunning looking woman. So much so in fact, that you should never have to worry about it - concentrate on other things in your life - looking good is always going to come natural to you. And you don't need to pout neither - you have a lovely shaped mouth and lips.
Some people are just sick, one of the problems with these online services is that some idiots spoil it for the more genuine people.
I truly believe that your eyes are the windows to your sole and in yours I see a beautiful young women with a glow for life and love. Good luck with your endeavours and just ignore the wackjobs.
and the above is on profile review of some random chic on this website!! guys and their emotional (or should i say dick) outpouring
Venusruled
Golden, Colorado USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 11:29 AM CST
hahahaha! That's great! Thanks for posting. We are all so confused, aren't we?
no venus. these are 'reviews' by men on profile review request of women!! trust me. as a guy i know what desperate means. but this!! i mean even Lord Byron would say, guys take a break.
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Tue Mar 9, 2010 12:27 PM CST
If a lot of women remembered that ALL guys are nice, & stop getting caught up with being so flattered, they might be able to tell whose sincere & what comments make sense.
Venusruled
Golden, Colorado USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 12:53 PM CST
Do you have any idea how refreshing it is to read your comments? It is good for me to read the wisdom you write. All men are good under all the "show". Some don't know how to express that goodness and that is where it gets confusing. Women are the same. We have the same fears and insecurities. We tend to express them as neediness and clinginess and eventually vindictiveness. Men seem to shut down, walk away, and become cold and aloof. I am getting a real education here. Thank you!
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Tue Mar 9, 2010 1:02 PM CST
And theres "Venus." I'm glad our help to give advice & understand the mayhem out here is mutual. The reason why men shut down, become cold, & maybe even walk away is because we are tired & exhausted from the games & ineffective communication. Im so tired of it, I think im 2 clicks away from having spells of fainting in public.
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Tue Mar 9, 2010 1:04 PM CST
I had to run out of a clothing store the other day because Beyonce's song "To The Left" came on. I can't take it anymore.
Venusruled
Golden, Colorado USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 1:19 PM CST
OMG! That is hilarious, Thaddeus! I have been there too. I think women and men communicate differently in relationship, don't you? When the woman gets aggressive, maybe it reminds the man of his mother chastising him and making him feel about 2 inches tall, thus the shutting down posture? And women when feeling disapproved of by their most beloved are taken right back to father being "so disappointed in you". Then the tears and a complete inability to think clearly and communicate at all develops. Then the love gets pinched off in defensiveness and pain and we just don't know how to open our hearts when we are feeling that way. So how do we feel the pain and still keep our hearts open?
What if the man makes a vow to not run when the woman gets emotional and the woman promises to communicate the truth of how she feels, without blame, when she has calmed down a bit? I don't know. I am as clueless as the next person.
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Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:04 PM CST
I knew that would get a good laugh outta you & anyone else who is frustrated by the mess. Well, speaking on me & my own experiences, I'm all about addressing conflict & resolution with a woman. Ive only dealt with them running away & wanting a "break" from eachother. But all thats done is cause me to lose trust, form grudges, then later find out that during the break, her regretable, foul behavior & acts in the end....ruined us beyond repair.
sanfranguy
san francisco, California USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:07 PM CST
Dude you are so right. Man, if I got one "if I said you've got a beautiful body would you hold it against me" I must've had 1000.
Venusruled
Golden, Colorado USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:22 PM CST
Mr. SanFran, Babe, Baby, Babe babe babe babe, Are you referring to men writing that to you or women? The blog is about what men write on women's pic reviews. I just wouldn't want anyone to be confused.
sanfranguy
san francisco, California USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:26 PM CST
Venus babe..... girls, guys, young, old, gay, straight and probably a few who are confused or curious, depending on your take.....they all write it babe! and sorry to confuse you - although maybe thats easy to do - I meant dudes and babes writing to me....to me.....capice?
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Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:29 PM CST
thanx ven...cuz i'm alwayz confused..
smitten
Venusruled
Golden, Colorado USA
Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:38 PM CST
It is easy to feel dazed and confused when being so distracted by those stellar abs.
HI Smitten!!
good to see you!
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Tue Mar 9, 2010 2:46 PM CST
Hi Ven..
..again thanks, me now got me shades on..
oh ya, no longer gonna be distracted from Sanfruns beautiful body that he wantz to hold against mine.......
smitten
Excellent blog!
All men are good, but the lines of communication do get crossed. It's little wonder why some shutdown, shut out and walk away. If only it were simpler by simply saying, "I like the way that you look and express yourself". Or "You are beautiful, may I take the time to get to know you? I would be honored to be given the chance to get to know you".
Open, honest communication truly is key.
