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I've been curious, do you guys think some relationships revolve around money? I've wondered that sometimes, if anyone actually accepts their partner for whom they are, and not for the money they make.
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true love with honest heart doesnt bother about how much couples earn dear...but we do need money to survive but never let it rule our lives...tho some people does...conversing nice blog,have a great sunday cheers handshake
Roofus,why do you clump women together in a catagory-obviously there is some male chauvinism stuck in your head which is now catagorized as a mental illness.tongue
Providing for her and her children is primary in a woman’s mind from ancient time, Yes Money is important and primary in their relationshipprofessor scold emotions may help but if the provider can not protect and provide the woman will find anotherfrustrated frustrated
@Calliopesgirl Why do I have a mental illness for speaking the truth?. And how does exposing women make me a Male Chauvinist?. Come on, I'm doing a good deed to a couple men. angel
@anc1985
First one left me coz @age 23 I was unable to provide same amount like her father of age 65. Second one left coz her mother made her convince dat dis guy haven’t enough. The third one told “only your income and establishment in my country can say the last word”!
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Money gives you choices in life. Money gives you freedom. Nobody wants to be without choices. It's just no fun to be a hard luck story. professor
laugh laugh laugh your own reality in your
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depends on which culture you are talking about?
I keep money out of my relationships. I'm financially independant and I'd expect the same of my partner. Simple really.
Money should not come into it. If you love someone you pool resources - and live within your means.

Debt is the biggest relationship killer and cause of most divorces.

Morning sleepin wave
Morning Z wave
You're absolutely right, debt and finances in general can kill romance very quickly so better keep it out uh oh laugh

bouquet
sleepin birdy, you say you keep money out of your personal relationships,but you expect your partner to be independent like you,,,,sooooooo any one who is not indy is a no,no...so how can you say "you keep money out"..or have I got that wrong!!!!!sorry to nit /pick
Zand get a life,,money comes into every facet of our lives,including any relationships,,you just have to be aware and deal with it.....to say otherwise is just sticking your head in the sand.....
Hi Lipsee wave
I see your point and you're right, but I choose to not get involved with anyone not being finacially independant so there wouldn't be a relationship to revolve around money to begin with laugh
If I meet someone, I do care if he is able provide for himself; I don't ask about it though. I think it would be clear before getting involved if he would be a free loader or not and I will not financially carry someone.
I'm simply saying that I don't expect anyone to provide for me so I'm asking the same in return.
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lipsee

Are the poor not allowed to fall in love?

What would you think if a rich lady knocked you back because you could not afford her lifestyle?

Of course money matters - but it should not stop you falling in love. I would respect a person with very little if they were living as well as they can within their means.

There are an awful lot of poor folk in the world - even more so with high unemployment in many countries.

z
@ anc1985 & sleepingbird:

Exactly! Does the man make enough to pay his own bills, buy his own food, supply his own living quarters, but doesn't have to earn mega-money. Will he not borrow from his partner
like, ask for a few bucks til payday and be able to have a few bucks for building towards savings account! Does he not squander his money on gambling, drugs, booze and is he neat and clean.

Yes, a relationship does revolve around money and responsibility. Just choose a partner that understands you don't make mega-bucks, if that's the case, but you fill the above criteria then you will be allright!
Well garnita, just because you got burnt, doesn't mean all women are after a thick wallet or on a power trip.
Don't generalize out of bitterness, it gets boring pretty fast
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Zand just forgive me for being such a cynic,of course poor people fall in love,a poor guy may well fall in love with some rich lady,,but money is always part of the relationship,its always there in the background for good or evil...
Money can go anytime but true love will stay in your heart until the day you dieheart1
Thanks for all the comments, there's some things I see in the comments that are true and some I don't really agree with. I understand money is pretty much on everyones mind especially in this economy but I don't think a whole relationship needs to revolve around it. Thanks again
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Hello, I'm Jacob. I'm a down to earth guy, that's caring, warm hearted, and I know what I'd like to achieve out of life. I'm self employed as a General Contractor. In my off time I enjoy taking in a good movie and dinner, being outdoors, hanging with [read more]

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