"people who have not known intense pain always sit on judgement on those who CANT forget."
You say this on a singles site where every life here has been touched by sorrow, pain, want and loneliness? Some deal with it by jacking themselves up and carrying on, others, by believing they hold a monopoly on pain and sorrow.
"if you have been crippled emotionally you cry inside and words flow in the guise of tears in black and white print."
Yes, been there, done that.
"if you cannot understand atleast dont be unkind."
Ever hear of 'tough love?" You give support when needed to help the person pick themselves up and carry on. Not make the bed of lonely sorrow more inviting.
"we all could use some understanding, some kindness."
I agree. However, knowing there is support and a place to express your pain with others who have experienced it and understand it does not mean it is a swimming pool of sorrow to wallow in for the rest of your life.
"all are not born fortunately positive. they try, and fail."
I know. I've failed most things but succeded after enough trying. Never give up, never surrender and never allow self pity to rule.
"if that rankles, you need not read, just ignore them.
you, like us, have choices
we all do. thankyou very much!!!"
