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Hi , I think alot of people use the term player to loosly. People meet have sex , one decides it isnt working out , or they are not satisfied & end the connection ...bang your a player !!! Bullshit I say !
Ive been called a player !
So I decided after meeting the man in the flesh I wasnt attracted to him...
So what Now I am a player ffs!!
I mean If it isnt there what are you supposed to do , hang about waiting to see if the sparks gonna flicker ...
My opinion of a player is someone who deliberatly sets out to play with anothers emotions ...ie: I want a long term relationship ...they are sleeping with 5 others
ie:I am separated ( my wifes gone shopping)
The whole thing is ridiculous !
A player is simply playing with someones good intentions
not a playmate we are after all , all seeking one of them !
but ya gotta have the zing
JMO
Kizzy

Thanks Kizzy,
Understand what you are saying!
Peace,
Gooch

Unfortunatly .... the bad boy, danger I may use you Image is thriving and strongly.

the Geek guy, soft and tender and true to his word, is the one dying out.

the concietidness of sexual pride and ( manliness ) of the player
is a force to be reconed with and again unfortunatly a lot of women end up victim's of " the game " were suposed to hate instead of the player.

the player is a spoilt and nieve child, who's sole perporse is to prove he's a man by consuming all the purity in the unfortunate women he comes across, for his own selfishness and enjoyment and losly would call himself there friend. his defence to any brother, sister, father, mother, and real friends of whatever woman he's mistified with his false inoccent story is there gelouse. or trying to control your life, then when he's done and the poor moo has pleadged infornite love or is pregnant its bye !

I hate Player's, and the Game... I got a daughter just let one knock on my door. thankfully she's only 4 but little girls grow up fast. and the moment she sprouts breasts they'll be there in trainning waiting for her to make a mistake. thats why me and my Ex have made plans for her to move with me when she's 11

fathers are the only thing a player fear's.
and a big one it LOL !

well in truth there's not a lot anyone can do except educate our daughters. and regain dignity and respect for the Art, Passion and closeness of love and sex

Thanks dude. Happy new year to you.
I agree with you almost entirely.
This is just me, but I don't think individuals "who are soft and true to their word",as you say are a dying breed. I guess because I feel that kind of behavior, that kind of action should be constrained to just a single label. I believe and agree with you that the numbers may be dwindling but I also believe they will always be around. They must!

correction: ...action should not be constrained...
sorry,
gooch.