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I'm feeling you, bro, and all I can say is keep your chin up.

We all need those arms around us at times. If you'll accept these, you can borrow them......



(But I won't kiss you)

Sorry to hear that man my heart goes out to you i will say a prayer for you and your little angel and always remember he is always looking down and watching over you and your family...

Dear you,

I could just feel the pain, because I cried bitter tears when my friend's baby was still born at 9 months. I could tear one apart. What is truly sad, is that you and she had to part. I wonder, if you really gave her the shoulder she needed to cry on n get over?

My friend's husband was basically with her 24 hours, talking to her although it appeared to be talking to a wall. She was almost closed up, wouldn't talk to anyone, wouldn't answer calls. It was almost a period of hibernation.

But gradually, with time, pain was familiar, she began to unwind and found strength from the people around her.

It is sad, you ended up being all alone. I sure hope there would be a soul to comfort you in that part of the world.

Have faith in yourself dear, and hope for better times to come

Blessings and prayers

No words just a

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i totally understand and maybe my own experiences may help you even a tiny bit.

My heart goes out to you! You are certainly not alone when it comes to ´special`days that should be filled with celebration & joy - but are now just days to ´get through`and i have so many of those!... I lost both my only two children in seperate road traffic accidents! yes - they did have the chance to experience life to the full while they were here! They were 18 & 21 years old! One had his accident on ´good friday` never a good day for me!.. but he did donate organs and now 4 people have had the chance to lead normal lives! My other son died instantly on his motor-bike 6 years later!... lightning never strikes twice!..so they say! Well - it did for me! birthdays, xmas, so many days when i´d just want to curl up & die! ... But! I did get through this!.. I know for sure that they are still with me & they are happy that I am ´living my life` being happy & love to laugh! cause when your happy!.. they are happy!!
We are all dealt certain lessons to get through this life - really don´t know why i picked these ones - the most tragic of all! But I have had the strength to move on!... and I thank my sons for that!... I still have my life to live & hopefully one day find someone to give me a ´hug`for the rest of my life!!
I had Purple Rain by Prince played at my sons funeral !
Love&Hugs!.... Cassym

Sorry to hear that. Sometimes it is so difficult to understand the lessons we have to learn in the journey called life and our purpose here, just as its difficult to comprehend why a life has to end so abruptly when it has barely started.

But we have to move on. Time heals, perhaps with a little push from professional help or counselling. Take heart, your son's energy is still around you. May I venture to suggest perhaps to try a reputable psychic medium, face to face, since there are many phony ones around operating through a phone service.

Hope this will then help you open up and find the courage to gradually move on.

I don't want to say sorry to you not because I am not but because I know exactly what you are going through. On March 24th 2005 My 3rd daughter was born and died. She only lived 2 hours. I was fortunate enough to hold her, see her open her eyes for a breaf second and even grab my finger. I cried the whole time as the doctors did all that they could to bring her to life but it was too late. She had developed kydney falure in the womb and so didnt develop lungs. The death of her had an amazing crush on my heart, soul and mind. The lucky thing is that she was a twin and our other daughter was ok and healthy but it did not change the feeling of my heart being ripped from me. The death of my daughter had the same effect on my relationship as it did yours but it was me that went out of control. I never turned to drugs or sex but I just stopped caring. I lost everything my house, job, but most and worst of all my family. I tell you this because I know how hard that it is... all that you want in the world is to be able to see that baby grow up... to hold it and care for it but that chance was taken from you. I wanted you to know that you are not alone. I also want you to know that it is not the end... There is life out there and you will find someone that you care about and that cares for you. If my daughters death has told me anything is that everything in life happens for a reason. I know that you will be ok and one day very soon happy again. As you know the pain never goes away but with time we can learn to accept it, have it as a part of our life and hope that one day we will meet them again in heaven. I wish you all the best this year in all that you do and will be thinking of you on that day.
Good luck and God bless
Mike

R.I.P.
Erika Jade 24/03/2005

I am sorry for your loss
Most couples who lose a child never get over it and it effects the marriage (relationship)
The relationship has to be strong in order to survive it, sadly most don't.
The timing wasn't right for the babies soul to stay, who know he or she may come back at another time when it is right.
I am sorry again for your loss