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Posted:Sun Jan 4, 2009 12:52 PM CST
Criteria
I really appreciate all the emails and flowers. Some of the individuals sending me emails do not meet my criteria I've placed on my profile. Which tells me they're not really reading my profile. I have no attraction for younger or older men - I'm looking for closeness in age and someone that will fit what I'm looking for. Keep reading.
I have a huge issue with age. Many people will say it's only a number. That's wonderful you feel that way...but, you can't convince me otherwise to think in this manner. I would not and will not date someone that is even 2 years younger than me and no more than 4-5 years older than me (unless he's serious, has kids, lives within a reasonable distance and I'm attracted to him). I'm not looking to hook up.
I'm looking for my likeness. A clone of myself, if you will, in personality, morals, values, beliefs and I HAVE to be attracted to him. I get the same resonponses everytime - so save your breath. "You'll never find him! You're asking too much" etc, etc. But, you have to realize something. Even though you might be thinking that, that would be unfair to me - because, you're actually saying that I should settle for someone I wouldn't be happy with. If you think my criteria is too high - you should hope that I find him. Or, perhaps you're upset at me because you don't happen to fall in my criteria and you feel that's unfair? I apologize for liking what I like. Real love connections don't happen all the time.
Attraction is a must. Even though I know beauty fades, I want to be able to have that person for as long as I can have them for. Until that beauty turns to wrinkles and old bones.
I'm looking for Assortative Mating...you should look it up.
Being attracted to "him" would be the cat's meow.
Good luck in your search!
JamesBraginton
Palm Desert, California USA
Tue Jan 6, 2009 1:32 AM CST
With that attitude, U WILL REMAIN CHILDLESS. Oh by the way, that attitude is driving men to date asians and marry them. They are a lot smarter than women in the USA And they don't end up like a sow chopping their hair off. Keep acting delusional.
cinnamongyrl
Agoura Hills, California USA
Wed Jan 7, 2009 2:31 AM CST
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JamesBraginton of Palm Desert, California USA
24 hours ago
With that attitude, U WILL REMAIN CHILDLESS. Oh by the way, that attitude is driving men to date asians and marry them. They are a lot smarter than women in the USA And they don't end up like a sow chopping their hair off. Keep acting delusional.
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Mr. JamesBraginton, who said I was childless? I don't feel that there was any attitude in my blog, at all. I can accept your criticism and harsh words to me and I'll only apologize IF it really made you that angry. Or, perhaps you were already angry that evening you read my post and replied...reading into it something that was not there.
I'm glad that men are able to find love in different cultures - that's wonderful! I don't harbor resentments toward men that like women of all color. I wish I was able to do the same toward all men and all ages. But, my heart doesn't allow me to be happy with just anyone. I've dated Mulato, Asian, Latino and Caucasian. I am looking for a certain look and age, someone that has morals, values and is able to maintain a monogamous relationship for life. But, to think that men are driven to date Asian women because of attitudes carried by women in the US - is absurd! Maybe you don't like the fact that we speak our minds!
Thank you for your generalizations and comparisons of Asian women and women of the US - I'm sure the entire female population would all be happy to hear your comment. And, to think that you related women to pigs (sows) - I have no words for someone with such anger and hate in their heart toward women.
Actually, I really think your response was delusional and irrational.
Maybe you shouldn't be dating right now. Get some rest.