bent1 Blog Post: Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:51 PM CST

bent1 olean, New York USA
Posted:Wed Jan 7, 2009 8:51 PM CST

A question

A person of the opposite sex IMs you, they are less than half your age and you have not had any previous contact with this person, not even looked at their profile. Would you be curious why this person would IM you.

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cinnamongyrl Agoura Hills, California USA
Thu Jan 8, 2009 1:36 AM CST
I can tell you from personal experience 99 out of 100 times - they just want to engage in sexual conversation. They're attracted to you in some manner and want to tell you that you are attractive to them. Then they try to move onto as much sexually explicit conversation as possible.

The curiosity of such people contacting me has completely faded. Initially, I'll only respond to be kind, then I'll let them know that if any conversation of that nature comes about - they're going to be blocked. Usually, they just close the conversation with "good luck then".

But, I cannot tell you how many people are on my blocked list. It's not what I'm looking for and I won't tolerate it. Frankly, it's a waste of my time and it detains me from looking for who I do want.
cassym Las Americas, Canarias Spain
Thu Jan 8, 2009 4:44 AM CST
Oh yes!!.. been there - had that done to me endless times! that`s the reason my i.m is now switched off!!...doh devil
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hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
Thu Jan 8, 2009 1:58 PM CST
my experience with this problem is that they are scammers. cute profile pictures, but they don't really say much at all. just that they're looking for marriage. and yes, most are very young. at least what is written on their profile pic says they are. anymore if it is a young unknown person, I just hang up.
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RicoSuave Santa Clara, California USA
Thu Jan 8, 2009 8:06 PM CST
I have found all of them to be "cammin" girls that want to lure me into a pay per view site...not my thing.
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Thu Jan 8, 2009 9:04 PM CST
I would guess it's a scam of some kind.
nana1023 louisville, Kentucky USA
Thu Jan 15, 2009 10:15 PM CST
i know what you mean been there done that my self..its a shame we cant see them before we answer the im request yes.... most of them are looking for sex only or money from you..... so be very careful...i have had alot of guys tring to $ or internet sex......

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