So I changed my profile...is it rude ...?
I have had many many mails from folk in faraway countries, many with attached yahoo or e - mail addresses and now find that, although I used to do my best to answer everyone I really can't be doing it any more.People seem to be offended if you message them saying thank you for your mail but I don't really feel it appropriate to correspond over such a distance as I'm looking at the prospect of a full on touchy relationship
I have had replies calling me a tease
saying that I am inflexible ( 
it's a lie I tell ya, still kinda bendy ), that I should try it and see .. even if it isn't what I'm looking for. Seems these guys know what I need more then I do myself. It isn't personal or race based or anything but a distance issue and the need to be in face to face contact with someone. Maybe with the prospect of a little peck on the cheek
Have I stained my profile by adding this fact to it !!
Way I see it, if these guys actually do read it then they'll see that I probably won't reply. Saving them time to search for someone that maybe is looking for them.
Would really appreciate your feed back guys
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Some mail I feel is just trying to get info too, not something to have proper frenship so as soon as I get wind of that I stop and block. I just hope I get all.
I can understand someone from different country trying to get to know you in a different way from what you are used too, but my profile states from my own country around my own age and likes walking so why get mail from people who say well I do not like walking
Friendship that is different but for me it will be someone I have met here or forums, not a 40year old from across the water.
Ladies thank you .. phew.. relief
PS; you ain`t gonna like either one...
Parti .. them figures are rocking my world
I'll never understand all these conditions women put on their profile which someone has to satisfy in order to receive a reply. something like: "I will not reply to single word emails" and "no photo. No reply" and if u this or not that I won't reply and bla bla bla bla ...
... I mean for god's sake!! Those it really take too much effort to say a 'no thanks'?!?!??!?!?
Barebum.... rude ???
Obviously, whoever is doing it are bored........
Did you say you were/are going to bare your bum......
Why give a hoot?
profile or friends list, no waste of time
to paranoid people..sorry im ot perfect
to judge, but kinda irritating....
and ots the same with girls also , they
never reply to our mail.
I dont understand what a girl think og us !
CAN YOU JUDHE US WITHOUT TALKING
IN CS...NOBODY IS FRIEND...GIRLS CHOOSE
and ITS IRRITATING
WE R LOOSING THE WAY WE LOOK FOR
LOVE
and its the same with girls also , they
never reply to our mail.
I dont understand what a girl think of us !
CAN YOU JUDGE US WITHOUT TALKING
IN CS...NOBODY IS FRIEND...GIRLS CHOOSE
and ITS IRRITATING
WE R LOOSING THE WAY WE LOOK FOR
LOVE
1. Making sure they have skype, together with a portable laptop & built in cam.
2. Strictly no emails/online text chats
3. They must be willing to walk me through their home opening up bedroom cupboards proving to me that they are truly single as they claim in their profiles, as too I am too willing to do same.
4. They MUST be in their OWN home, not in a hotel or anywhere else.
Here are just a few married / common law married man tricks:
1. Once they get onto your skype they want to start texting or if they do happen to put on their skype video they do NOT put on their sound ?
.. & I do find that, for every 20 men who get onto my skype, 19 of them turn out to be either married or shacked up in a relationship with someone. The answer to that is ..Failed the married man test ? Skype has a DELETE button!
Married man hours are best times to catch them. If you find that they are available outside of these times & are texting you. just do yourself the favour of deleting them. This way you will create space for Mr Right to step up to the plate & I can assure you he will be more than willing to prove it!
Now you go Gal!
Reesa