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Posted:Sat Jan 10, 2009 12:00 PM CST
is there any left?????
dating is so hard any way...
cant understand why there so many people out there that want to play mind games with you.... could someone explain this to me... help me understand
Jewel7
ooooo, Clare Ireland
Sat Jan 10, 2009 1:37 PM CST
It is hard to meet genuine men in general but on these sites they seem to be like little boy in a candy store,they think they have loads of options & dont really get to know 1 woman as they are proverbial butterflies flitting from profile to profile
When they meet a lovely woman they are not satisfied as they think theres another "better" in their PC
nana1023
louisville, Kentucky USA
Sat Jan 10, 2009 2:17 PM CST
boy jewel7 you couldnt have hit it on the nail head any better then that..... they need to learn how to just shop at one candy store for a while and see what happens lol...
voyager007
Khober Saudi Arabia
Sat Jan 10, 2009 4:26 PM CST
well my lady, the answer to your dilemma which is shared by all even thought women feel it more, can only be seen if we just simply look back to times that was passed not long ago.
I can not share with you my own thoughts which can be misinterpreted as a culture difference or any other hock to hang on our own failure but let me point to you and all one direction to think about it each on his/her own as we all were raised as an individual entity by the so-called privacy and the freedom of an individual.
what was it right in the past for a commitment between man and a woman that archived partnerships and companionship???
what is wrong in the present for a commitment between man and a woman that failed archived partnerships and companionship???
if you can find the answer to both questions??? you will surly stop your dilemma,,,,
Jewel7
ooooo, Clare Ireland
Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:55 AM CST
Keep the faith Nana...there are some genuine ones among
the pile
The secret is filtering them..how i do this is after say 5 or 6 mails i talk to them on phone,1 can tell a lot by voice,flow of conversation etc,then if i find him interesting i accept a date
If hes not willing to travel to meet me or expresses issues about accomodation,ie; wanting to stay with me ( NO NO !) then im not wasting any time on him
millermeagan
Boksburg, Benoni South Africa
Mon Jan 12, 2009 6:18 AM CST
Yeah, I agree.
If they don't make an effort for you now - what will they be like in a few months time.
And yeah...you can tell a lot in the voice. Just give me an honest and caring guy...
greeb1957
London, Ontario Canada
Tue Jan 13, 2009 6:32 AM CST
oh, trust me. They are out there.