WHEN IN "LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP"
Most often than not, the purpose of dating online is to meet friends whom we can be friends forever or can be more...When you meet someone online, when the chemistry is right, it is understood that you want to know each other better...so correspondence keeps coming...every day if not every hour...
Until both of you decided to give it a try...
Long distance relationship is not easy... it has many challenges.
but they say, with the advent of technology, the downside of being away is minimized, it gets you connected wherever you maybe...
BUT when the getting to know each other better stage is OVER, when yo are comfy with each other...what to expect?
CSers:
How often do you want the other to correspond with you?
What is the minimum frequency of communication do you think is healthy to the so called LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP to keep it going?
Wish you ALL a pleasant time
Comments (23)
Thanks for the input...
your point is well taken and is a real help
wish you a pleasant time
LDR not for me.
When the real feeling is there, you just cannot spend an hour without thinking about that special someone.
And if you realize that the feeling is mutual...and that the other person is doing all the right moves ( trying to communicate frequently, expressing their feelings towards you....) you just can never get enough. Of course, both parties have to be emotionally available...
How often do you want the other to correspond with you?
What is the minimum frequency of communication do you think is healthy to the so called LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP to keep it going?
I don`t really know ,kinda depends on how long have we being communicating .In the beginning we do kinda like to have a more frequent and more often talks until we see if there is a mutual chemistry,common interests and views ,chances for a real life meeting ...
I got your point...
Emailing/chatting/skyping is not enough to really say chemistry is in the air...
Thanks for your comment
have a pleasant time
I got it...
seeing the other in person is the least one can do to really assess things..
Thank for sharing your thoughts...
It's appreciated.
have a lovely time
Meeting the other in person is best
your comment is much appreciated.
Have a wonderful time
Your point is well taken.
LDR is not easy...
Thanks for sharing your opinion, its a great help.
Have a fabulous time
Sorry, forgot to mention: a wonderful blog!
Then eventually you'll know how to proceed. Regardless of the naysayers feelings about feeling love or interest "by computer" you just have to know for yourself. I feel it and know it.
How wonderful that you can feel that! But, can we really know if a person just only wants to be kind or if there is more of an interst?
Yeah, that keeps me wondering as well.
Thanks for your idea, much appreciated.
Have a pleasant time
Regardless... should go by the instinct.
Thanks for your comment, helps a lot.
Have a pleasant time
Your point is well taken.
Someone nearest to one's heart is better.
Thanks for you sharing your experience, much appreciated.
Have a wonderful time
I've done a lot long distance dates, someone was visiting me, some people i visited, but mostly it was more about traveling and having fun in different country. I'm not sure if someone would like to have relationships when the most you need a hug or a kiss you must call skype and send virtual one.
Long distance can exist if you're in a same or neighbour country, but talking about overseas and very long distance it woun't work properly. Usually it stays just as "friends" or "friends with benefits".
Friendships can continue through cyber-space, telephone calls, etc. But this is not relationship in the sense of two people living together, sharing their lives in real, sharing the bathroom, sharing living arrangements, etc. You know, the real stuff.
How much communication is healthy depends on the couple, the commitment, and the intention.
Until my GF is granted her VISA to live with me, we talk every night for an hour or so, as well as email.
But this is just us. Others do things differently. How much you may need to communicate with your chosen partner if you are in a LDR is between you and your partner.
If you feel uncomfortable with the amount of communiation or the frequency (or the lack thereof) then this is something for you and your partner to discuss and come to an agreement about.
Ultimately, LDR must move on to become real, or it will die a natural death. It is just a matter of time, money, and red-tape.....
Finding someone you are compatible with and all the other stuff isnt super easy to find, and I know when my boyfriend somes here to visit soon and if things go good as they are so far, we will make plans for me to move to his country and its ok with his family...Different things work for differnt people...Your soulmate doesnt have to be next door...its about patience,communication,what God (or fate to some) wants to happen and if its meant to be it will happen,...along with both partners efforts...Different things work for differnt people...
Thanks for sharing your opinion and thoughts... that was indeed very enlightening and helpful.
Wish you a pleasant time.
My thanks for taking your time to share your experience and thoughts on this. That was thought provoking and helpful.
Wish you a pleasant time
Thank you for commenting on here.
Had learned so much and appreciated it so much.
Wish you a pleasant time