tiel, Gelderland, Netherlands

Jul 2013

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a loveless marriage?

not easy eh?would you stay for the kids?there our lots of couples in that situation..would you stay or go...

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santi83●Bekasi, West Java Indonesia

Jul 21, 2013●1 Blogs●60 Comments

I'll go. Explain to the kids that they can still met their father and mother. There is no poin i will keep my marriage if he doesn't love me anymore

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tolovealways●Klerksdorp, North-West South Africa

Jul 21, 2013●11 Blogs●37 Comments

My point of view on this subject, it is very hard to have parents in a loveless marriage,at some point tension raises and you do take it out on the children.It is normal we are only human.

Children deserve all they love and care they can get and if that means you are a better person without your spouse then it is better to go.

If however things are normal at home and you both agreed that you were gonna do this for the children then stay strong on do what you have to to make them happy.

I walked out only when my baby wrote hi final exams.

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scouse27OP●tiel, Gelderland Netherlands

Jul 21, 2013●72 Blogs●989 Comments

santi hi,yes i went too,but every situation is not the same?i have a half indonisian friend and she has now addmitted she is in a loveless marriage,so sad as she is so warm and loving person.thanks for your thoughts,have a nice day

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scouse27OP●tiel, Gelderland Netherlands

Jul 21, 2013●72 Blogs●989 Comments

tolove hi,thats why i left,my little girl at the time was also unhappy at the situation,kids pick things up very quick eh?

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Halv0●Marcoola, Queensland Australia

Jul 21, 2013●6 Blogs●196 Comments

Depends on ones personal character, faith and personal strength. I stayed until she pulled a coup de ta. It was very difficult being in,such a relationship. But we do crazy things for love that we hold despite others.

I believe that marriage is for better or worse. Dead love can be resurrected. But it takes 2.

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Lukeon●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Jul 21, 2013●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Depends too on the ages of the kids. If very young then go or when in teens thats when they really need guidance and support from both parents.

Jmo.

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titsy●Medan, North Sumatra Indonesia

Jul 21, 2013●71 Blogs●1,604 Comments

Sometimes I just can't understand why marriage could be 'loveless'...
In the beginning it was all nothing but pure happiness, later comes the children. Then problems set in....all sorts of problems that we are faced with...then the phrase comes in - loveless marriage. Why get married in the first place????.....

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Ken_19●Winchester, Virginia USA

Jul 21, 2013●284 Blogs●3,903 Comments

them not me <We need an edit button!!!>

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tatami●Inuyama City, Aichi Ken, Chubu Japan

Jul 21, 2013●241 Blogs●991 Comments

I did. And it wasn't really easy.

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Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA

Jul 21, 2013●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments

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Good blog!

I didn't stay around....twice. I've been single now for 35 years.

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scouse27OP●tiel, Gelderland Netherlands

Jul 21, 2013●72 Blogs●989 Comments

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halvo hi,no words can discibe the hurt and feelings,so hard,but i had to go.thanks for your imput.

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scouse27OP●tiel, Gelderland Netherlands

Jul 21, 2013●72 Blogs●989 Comments

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luke hi man,yeah she was seven(my girl)at the time,3 times she was here in holland but it is difficult.

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scouse27OP●tiel, Gelderland Netherlands

Jul 21, 2013●72 Blogs●989 Comments

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ed hi man,as always you give an honest answer.

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scouse27OP●tiel, Gelderland Netherlands

Jul 21, 2013●72 Blogs●989 Comments

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ken hi,i know your meaning,and thanks for your imput.

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funlaugh●Whitianga, Waikato New Zealand

Jul 21, 2013●88 Blogs●818 Comments

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I did, stayed for sake of the kids, reget it now as am at an age now where it seems meeting someone may not happen.

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mickyj63●adelaide, South Australia Australia

Jul 22, 2013●2 Comments

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Funny thought my marriage was good . Found out the hard way it wasn't . In fact my EX hadn't loved me for a very long time supposedly !
Why she left it for so long I have no idea . And she was we can be friends until I cut her off from my wages !!

My fault for not seeing signs I guess

I know now I'm better off

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jenhs●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 23, 2013●1 Blogs●7 Comments

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I would go as who you trying to fool here...kids grow up and move on,and kids grow up and move on with their lives....

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buzette4●tauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand

Jul 23, 2013

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You can't live your life for your kid's, sooner or later they leave home and you are the one that has wasted all those years being unhappy for what.the kids don't thank you and when they realise you have only stayed for them they are like no way you should of left.It does seem selfish at the time but you only have one life and you have a right to be happy.

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