hedistuff Blog Post: Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:44 PM CST

hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
Posted:Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:44 PM CST

Can a man say no and still be respected?

Dear Abby,
I'm looking for a girl that I can say no to and she will respect my feelings. One to accept my wishes and mean it. You know, a lady who has consideration of another's feelings rather than their own selfish orgasmic designs and out of control libido. I'm sick and tired of women believing that my face and body is their own personal playground and that I have no control over the "open for business" hours. Just now, one woman (peeking over my shoulder), muttered "too bad", which demonstrates yet again my total inability to maintain my self-worth and my frustration at the lack of respect for my personal standards.
Does anyone know a girl who will say "no" to sex and that I can say "no" to and we may share our agreed agreement to agree not to agree? How I welcome the warm, tender, understanding of another, so that we can share our mutual disregard for one another's needs and desires.
Love (or not), hedi

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JoAnn62 Singapore Singapore
Sun Feb 22, 2009 9:55 PM CST
Dear Love ( or not),

Most men will find your letter a little disconcerting but hey, we cannot all be cut from the same cloth. Still, ever wonder why you seem to be attracting the same sort of girl? Whatever your answer, it leads you home. Self-reflection is an important part of dating and certainly finding the right person. A bitter pill to swallow might have to be the idea that we attract people of similar kind. So, change is warranted first, with ourselves. I commend you on reaching some kind of realisation that you are worth more than what you find yourself getting. So, to begin, be the person you desire to attract and she'll turn up without you even noticing...; )

Hang in there,
Abby

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