Posted:Tue Mar 3, 2009 4:53 PM CST
Players Beware You Are On Dodgy Ground!
Ok so we are on the net looking for love and some one shows an interest. This is great and especially if you find them attractive in some way.
It’s all looking good and the replies are fast and frequent, it’s all as you had hoped it to be and more, wow! Is this true or is it too good to be true?
Well in my opinion you only really have one choice and that’s to follow every thing up and see how it all pans out.
In most cases it does fizzle out but again mostly we understand or know the reasons for this when it happens as its probably down to a general slow down in communications or interest, in both of you or just one of you.
Ether way its not rocket science. But what is it when it’s for no apparent reason? Well the sad truth is, it’s probably because you have been used for their own ego boost, loneliness, or because they’re parasites that feed from us. It’s like a drug to them and they crave and need attention.
This type of person will gorge them selves on either your character, love, humor, views, sex appeal, popularity or if you are truly wonderful (like me …LOL 
) all of these things.
But once they are full they do move on, make up excuses or if they’re truly shallow just disappear!
My advice to you is this…Just move on, but HOLD ON to what you thought you had with them and just keep it on the back burner for the next person you connect with. Not all are players but you will meet them on here as you will in real life.
It’s always easier here because they can hide it all a lot longer.
But yes they are all around us looking to enhance their own lives at the expense of others. Personally I am quite hardened to such events in general but it still hurts when I get messed about, but I suppose that’s all part of the games we play in life’s rich tapestry.
Take some satisfaction in this though: Players will always get what they deserve in the end. Life has many UN written rules and secrets. What you put out gets returned to you ten-fold. Maybe not the next day, week, month or that year, but as sure as eggs are eggs it will all come back to you.
Good or bad you get it back. Maybe it will arrive in dribs and drabs or maybe all at once, but it will return! This is nothing to do with any religion it’s just how the universe operates. So don’t feel bitter, disappointed or saddened for long because as long as we all keep looking forward then we are all sure to find our partners in life.
Nothing is easy that’s worth having and just be grateful that you found out sooner rather than LATER! Best of luck to all of you, and if you’re a player reading this then…GET A LIFE. xxx
