So many pretty faces so much bitterness

There are so many beautiful women here on CS from all parts of the planet. I see most are in the age group of 40 to 50 and all divorced.
I wonder why that is?
So much beauty discarded for what reasons?
As a fool looking and pondering such beauty I never hear the reasons why so many are divorced and unhappy in their relationships.
They joined this site in hope to find another chance but in most cases sabotage their efforts in gaining that chance.
Yes they all seek that special connection but sometimes when
it is right in front of them the are blinded by their past failures. Always do we look at our past as a frame of reference
but walk blindly and in fear of our future to emotionally touch and see our reflection of our highest goal in love.
It angers me so much to see so much dysfunction but I am just a voice in the wilderness that many will discard as a fool who has nothing to offer. However if people are looking for bread to feed them and discard the emotional connection to the hand that feeds them then what is the point in complaining about why nobody seems to understand the stupid questions people post of the quality of relationships or the foolish silly ideas of s*xual connection?
I find more people post silly useless ideas about if one squirts the wrong way or the right way or if one is not so particular that they are willing to do it perpendicular.
Yet I see in many profiles what many hope for and yet end up with a dork anyhow.
Lets face it most men are dorks and think between their legs.
Most women are not much different. With that said I hope one day people make an emotional spiritual connection then everything else will follow and make it so much more complete.
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im just a very pretty dysfunctional person giggle but i agree, and nice interesting blog, right on handshake
In order to make that special spiritual connection, both parties must be spiritually inclined in the first place? wave
Mr. Zius: I am a widower. And Im not looking for no one here. I just stumble up on this website. When i was looking for blogs, 2 years ago.. By the way! I forgot to say to you the other day. On your Race Wars Blog: Welcome To CS Blog Page. . . handshake
Butterflies ,ive got one word to say to that.....Wow, you really can show that different side, did you just pivot?: handshake:
I'm a widow also, not much to go by the same.wave n spiritwine Welcome to the blogs.handshake
And then again, Zius, some men have the ability to replace the bitterness with smiles and banana banana banana. Those outstanding men even inhabit places such as CS. Isn't that something? grin
Butterflies ... id say that's a healthy way to seein' things from different angles !!!: thumbsup:
wave Oh! Ken_19

Go right ahead! And laugh at me, all you want!
....................................................................................rolling on the floor laughing
Sometimes not having a pic posted here is better than having a pic posted here. Just sayin'.
Chame1eon_Again!


wine You'll Right!
Or maybe you're left!....................hug
It's a matter of perspective. If you are to my right then I am on your left...etc. help angel
Chame1eon_Again!

drinking But! I am in front of you.
..............................................................rolling on the floor laughing
Oh, now I'm so confused! crying crying crying
Angel & chame1eon_again

giggle giggle giggle
Chame1-Again!

uh oh uh!
You just need to speed read! Just saying!........moping
Hi Mimi...would you please talk some sense into Angel? angel banana
Chame1_Again!
scold Girl! When you get banned!
I am so gonna miss you!..........hug
.....................................................rolling on the floor laughing
Angel conversing
Mimi;
Well! Word on the street!.............conversing
I do post on the International forums & have seen a lot of your posts being bitter & even bringing conversation from PM onto threads. I would never use the word "discarded" in relation to someone I was with btw.

Sometimes we do attract what we project. wink
In my experience on the forums, many men are the ones who spew bitterness, far more than the women. I agree with KN. thumbs up
I don't know what bitterness is. A state of mind? A habit? A choice? It does seems reflective of unhappy experiences that people don't want to repeat.
You folks can't all have met. Why do you feel connected on CS? Because it's a connection between humans?
A kind word can go a long ways toward assuaging the bitterness or unhappiness or what it is that you perceive the emotion to be.

I'd use the appropriate emoticon here, but they kind of scare me.
sigh hug
am a widower myself I don't go entirely with your comments I have me met a few girls on site I think women in the ages you point out most seem to have a lot of problems they might be divorced but they still are in arguments over houses and money and many met new fellas the wrong kind ithink mostly and they then start judgeing others with their failures also their afraid to trust again I suppose its life I agree widows and widowers have things as well but if they had a good innings in their life they pretty much know what they want not easy to find thought that's my thoughts anyway
wine wine wine Seems you have wrote a speech for your next election ,, have a good day!
Why does it anger you? Why do you need to hear someone else's reasons for failed marriages?

As far as I'm concerned this is all personal business and not open to anyone else unless the CS person wants to divulge the info!
There is a proverb in China, you are not a fish, how do you know the fish swim in the water, it is painful or happy?
So, in the CS, you are happy, or pain?
In CS, although I've met a lot of trouble...But when I decided to give up looking for marriage partner or romantic partner, I feel very happy!
In CS, can harvest a lot friendship...tongue
To all who commented on this topic I am most humbled and learned a lot from the various responses. Being widowed I'm sure is no picnic. There is much invested in such relationships. I'm sure there is much invested from divorced relationships as well.
All may judge me with having much bitterness due to my past failures. Yet the only one I blame is the fool I see in the reflection pool. I can see that many chose or choose not to approach me because of my complaints. I am not here to dump my emotional luggage nor is anyone else trying to. Yes everyone here has their own reasons and agenda of why they are here on this site. It is so disheartening
to see many beautiful people here and struggling with their emotions and trying to develop trust in nothing more than a profile and pic or just a profile. Human nature seems to dictate
that never take anything or accept anyone upon face value.
We all have to be proven of our worth to society before being accepted. Nobody wants to make the same mistake twice when forming relationships. I have learned to set my expectations low enough here to avoid disappointment. I'm sure others have done the same.
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