The man off my dreams !!
I was chatting with a guy off a dating site for 3 weeks and i felt happy i was going to met someone i REALLY liked any ways we met up and it all went wrong from start to end !!
He got tickets for the cinema even tho i said it wasn't a really good idea for a fist date but i went along any ways.
i would have to say the guy off my dreams became a guy off my nightmare
He was very full on and keep trying to put hes hands in places he should not on a fist date and he made me feel very uncomfortable!
I wanted to end the date there and then.
He keep trying to get me feel him up in places you shouldn't when in public and not someone i just met. I tolled him i felt very uncomfortable and he then wanted to make it up by taking me for a drink so i went a long and he was still very hands on and over done the complements BIG time !!
He wanted to met me again but i don't know the best way to put it to him............any ideas ??
Has any one had some thing like this happen to them before ?
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Just put it plain that you don't wish to see him again.
if that's what you are asking me ?
Astral vista baby!
2 hours ago
i got a bus up to his town and met in the cinema and we went your own ways after the date.
if that's what you are asking me ?
If you didn't feel that going to a Cinema wasn't a good idea then You should have stood your ground by not going.
It would seem to me that it would be pretty hard to have a conversation while watching a movie.Meeting at coffee shop would had been the better choice.
After all i was chatting with him for 3 weeks on the phone but when i met him, he was full on.
i really didn't plane how to leave so i spend 4 hours with him.
He was lovely to chat with but he was like a hurry teenage and i couldnt deal with that
If internet dating really is a route you want to go down, I would suggest you are very clear in what you want (doesn't work but makes it easier for you to just walk away), meet for a coffee early on and just walk when you know it's not for you. Stay safe.
Best to meet in real life, like we used to
I always make it a practice on a first date to meet in a public place i.e. coffee shop, restuarant etc. During the day and no alcohol. That way you can leave whenever you want! Never put yourself in a compromising position. Pay your own way. JMO
3 years off endless dates and short relationships
that was never going to work since day one.
I really thought he was "THE ONE for me"...........
up to date i tolled him i never wanted to go on any more dates then he ask to be friends but that cant happen for me as i feet very degraded by him and he was only playing mind games with me.
i have deleted his number and have moved on with my life.
thanks for the really good advice.
i will take what yous said on here on bored and i wont be letting this happen to me again.
i have move on and did what some people on here tolled me to do.
i was talking to guy for 3 days then he ask me for coffee so i said yes and he STOOD ME UP !! i cant get in contact with him cos he deleted his profile.