25 Things People in Great Relationships Do NOT Do
Stolen from the internet, lovingly.#1. They don’t rush the present state of their relationships to get to better times ahead.
#2. They don’t expect their relationships to solve all their problems.
#3. They don’t expect their relationships to be easy.
#4. They don’t let fear overpower their love and trust.
#5. They don’t keep secrets.
#6. They don’t fake their feelings.
#7. They don’t hide who they are.
#8. They don’t look to others for validation of their identity.
#9. They don’t hold hateful grudges.
#10. They don’t focus on the unchangeable past.
#11. They don’t expect their loved ones to always be strong.
#12. They don’t focus on people’s flaws.
#13. They don’t give out of obligation, or because they want to be paid back.
#14. They don’t take their relationships for granted.
#15. They don’t just show up when times are good.
#16. They don’t try to constantly “fix” the people they care about.
#17. They don’t talk when they need to listen.
#18. They don’t take everything personally.
#19. They don’t neglect their own self-awareness.
#20. They don’t say “yes” when they need to say “no.”
#21. They don’t let people hold them back indefinitely.
#22. They don’t resist or interfere with other people’s growth.
#23. They don’t rebound and rush into replacement relationships.
#24. They don’t look at past relationships as failures.
#25. They don’t let what’s behind them define them.
Comments (13)
Peace!
Joke aside, I agree with every point here... a bit like I have written in my profile in fact, only longer, much longer...
However... what are the possibilities to find someone like that?
a refuge
a fortress
a playground
a spa
a nice day at the beach...
Thank you all for your comments.