plasticsoldiers Blog Post: Thu Apr 16, 2009 7:06 PM CST

plasticsoldiers Broken Arrow, Oklahoma USA
Posted:Thu Apr 16, 2009 7:06 PM CST

sometimes its just not what it seems.

We were in love. So whats the problem?
Distance. And the fact that he's too busy to see me.
I left him, not the other way around.
Back to square one.
I need someone that will actually be there for me. That will make time for me. It's not fair that I have to sit around and wait to fit into his schedule. I know he loves me and all, but I cant stand the distance.
2 months, now it's over.
I felt bad, not for long apparently. I cant commit, its hard for me. Even harder when he's not around.
So much for love. Next.

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Iiris Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Fri Apr 17, 2009 2:05 PM CST
I'm wondering... however no, i'm not really wondering but i understand your feelings, just i have never thought that there is someone in the world who has the same situation... During 1,5 years i've been in such kind of relations and now it still last... Just hold on!
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DBOWMAN brighton, East Sussex, England UK
Sat Apr 18, 2009 1:35 PM CST
I have the same problem. Twice I've ended things between us and twice he asked me back. I'm back with him for keeps now. He finds time to text me at least once a day and yesterday he phoned and we spent an hour on the phone mostly with me asking him to repeat himself because I had real problems hearing him, not his fault I'm slightly deaf and have problems hearing over the phone so I prefer texting. This morning I found he had put a message in my message thingy and flowers in the flowerbox. Tomorrow if he gets an order out on time he's hoping to see me to celebrate my 52nd birthday. The point I'm trying to make is its worth the wait. We have made plans that if we're still together in 2 years time when my son leaves school I will quit my job and move to be with him and in the meantime when his work load lessens he will spend what weekends he can with me. It helps if you plan for a future it gives you something to look forward to. If you look in the Articles section of this site there is an article on long distance relationships which mentions most of the advice I've given here. Good luck.

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