Online Dating can be difficult

Hi all, this is the first time i've ever posted a blog on this, but though it would be interesting to get other peoples opinions. Since joining this website i've talked to several girls, but when it came to the prospect of possibly going on a date with them it would fall through. Understandably, i'm not the only guy on this website that seeking a relationship and i'm sure a girl will have several different guys interested in them. I was just wondering, what does it take to show that you'd be a good suitor for a relationship through a website like this?

As well as that, it's very difficult to portray what sort of personality you have through using text alone. All i'm asking is, what values do people really search in each other in this, because sometimes it seems that what they say the want from this site, is the complete opposite once you start a conversation.

Thank you all for reading this, and I wish you all a happy and fantastic weekend :)
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Hi Alans, wave I never got that tbh, I thought it's best to rather meet sooner than later for a coffee and not to waste time with someone you have nothing in common with. dunno

That's just me personally, I have up going on dates from here because the vast majority are only looking for a legover and were lying about this. Some people might have gotten cautious, some might want to chat for a while to get to know someone, but then they should just say if they don't want to meet up. conversing

Have fun and hope you'll meet the right one for you. wine
I think my problem is that I wait too long, but I just don't want to rush into anything as I did in previous relationships because they never went anywhere. So just want to find a relationship that will last
So best give a woman a chance, get to know her well first.
This is about meeting for a coffee and see how you are getting on. It's not that you have to start a relationship with someone there an then. Just talk and see how you get on and if you want to see each other again. conversing

Just in general, as Nicefeet says, get into the habit of talking to women. Not every women you meet is a potential date, chat to them, laugh with them and when your are comfortable with talking to women, it's way easier when you meet someone you are interested in. Simply making friends helps, it broadens you social circle and gives you more opportunities to meet people - on of them could be "it". wine
Thanks a million for the suggestions, it's really much appreciated. I think I may have been taking the wrong approach to the whole thing, so will see how it works out :)
Best of luck with it! handshake
Nice feet, that's my shape...... Pear pointing giggle giggle giggle wave

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Hey, thanks for taking time to read this. My names Alan, i've just finished college and have a degree in Pharmaceutical science and drug development. I currently work in a fast food restaurant until I find work in my field. I'm a happy, positive pers [read more]

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