Baby_Monkey Blog Post: Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:48 AM CST

Baby_Monkey Naguabo, Naguabo Puerto Rico
Posted:Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:48 AM CST

My Mothers Struggle


Sorry that I am writing on a sad note.

A couple of weeks ago my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. I am feeling terribly bad for her. I guess is the naive thinking that good people deserve good things. But that is not how life works. Well I didn't forget but I had it in the back of my mind. It was 2 or 3 days ago that she went in for the surgeon to examine her and he told her that this week she needs to be operated. It breaks my heart to see my parents struggling because I know how hard they work and I love them so much.

I know I need to support her but I just don't know how. I always listen to her and try to make things easier but....I really love her, she's a fighter and against all odds she proves everybody wrong. I guess I am worried that things might get worse.

Its so hard, shes 50 and still working to provide the family. I wish she would just quit her job and relax. I work too and I try to put in money whether it is making the shopping for the things needed around the house or just working in the house.

Well I just needed to get this off my chest. I honestly don't know what I would do without her. Sometimes I just wish I could do more, but I don't know hat else to do. When she talks to me I stay strong but inside is just breaking me. I still got to stay strong for her, let her know I am here.

I really hope she knows how much I love her and all I am willing to do for her.


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Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:56 AM CST
My sympathy goes out to your family.
And just being there is enough.
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She does know how much you do love her
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Crollydoll11 Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland
Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:23 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you,your Mum and family right now.Just be there for her,listen and support her,im sure she knows how much you loveteddybear
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DBOWMAN brighton, East Sussex, England UK
Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:29 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear about your mother listen to the 2 people above me they are right your mother does know you love her by the things you do for her. You are a daughter your mother must be proud to have.comfort angel
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mmarques007 Boca Raton, Florida USA
Mon Apr 20, 2009 12:43 AM CST
I pray for you and your family... angel
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LILLYLADY 10 Sneeze Town, Ohio USA
Thu Apr 30, 2009 12:55 PM CST
My prayers go out to you and your entire family. Stay strong for your mom as there will be times that she will cave in and cry. It's OK to cry with her. Being there for her and doing things together and listen to her talk are some of the best ways you can support her.
This disease is an emotional rolercoaster that none of us are immune to in life.

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