questions for u single women
How Long have U been singleDo U feel lonely or just alone
Are U to independent
Do U think it will be hard to adjust having someone if U have become alone for so long
...or U just happy as U r
Ian158
Do U feel lonely or just alone
Are U to independent
Do U think it will be hard to adjust having someone if U have become alone for so long
...or U just happy as U r
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I rarely feel lonely, but I do have a bad day the odd time. I never feel alone, I like living on my own and peace and quiet in the evenings during the week.
It was hard to adjust but I have. I am independent, I'm living for nearly 10 years on my own in a foreign country and that is just a requirement. No, never had problems to adjust to not being single so far (had long-term relationships for years) and have found the same with guys who were in similar situations as me.
Key word...desire
How Long have U been single
For ages!
Do U feel lonely or just alone
Not that I feel just lonely or alone, I feel as if I am not living, I just exist.
Are U to independent
I am.
Do U think it will be hard to adjust having someone if U have become alone for so long
No, if there is love between us.
...or U just happy as U r
I am not happy to live without love of a partner.
I have been on my own for a few years...I am not lonely but miss some of the times I had sharing with someone but I do like the quiet!!!...I think most can appreciate what it is like to be alone but welcome another in their life but I do think it may take some time to adjust...
I am extremely independent. I think that I wouldn't live with somebody [its an age thing, you get used to living alone and set in your ways ] I would spend long weekends each weekend and then we would do our own thing. I am happy but it would be nice to have a person to love and to be loved.
Ian, I really believe its a circumstantial question, for instance, a woman /man who is working, in their 30s , 40s, and has a good network of friends and money to socialize, is not going to feel being alone as badly as say, somebody who has retired from working, has been made redundant and cant find work at their age... we live in an ageist society. When the friends are all Couples and have adult chidlren and grandchildren and you are getting older and would like to settle down, it is not as easy to be alone. It is also a very couple orientated society as you reach a certain age and so you fidn people hanging on to unhealthy relationships.
Ian finally, I would say, I am happy in my own skin and unless I am, I would think it fruitless to enter into a relationship expecting the man to fulfil my 'inner emptiness' or to make me happy. Happiness is an inside job that you bring to the relationship. Enjoy the sun over there in Bahrain.
Sometimes I feel lonely
I am independent
I don't know
I am not sure....
but why am I here? bcos my friends are here...