telling the truth..
I am sure... everybody has vary life experiences, a lot of lesson we gain which make us know how to live our life... to understand how to treat and respect others as we want to be treated and respected.still... from beginning,I always try to be a nice person and being honest person is also very nice. I can sleep well.
Imo, honesty is everything in all live aspect. I hate liar, so I dont have a term "white lying".. to me, lying is lying. rather than I have to say a lie even though that is for good, better I keep silent.
When people ask me for something.. I will tell the truth, sometimes it is bitter but let them accept it, I just have to manage timing when I have to tell bitter truth. if I could not do bcos too bitter, again I will keep silent.
can be said I am a spontaneous person, I will answer the question right away. I will never push someone to believe with what i said. whether they will believe or not.. that is not my concern.
this habit, sometimes make people get me wrong.. but as long as they don't question, I assume they understood... but then, they don't talk to me. it's fine... I also will not ask "why"... I will not push someone to be my friend (or more than friend) if them don't want to be..... trust is important in friendship and relationship.
I just want a simple life... why should I make it complicated when I can make it simple?
have a great Monday everybody...
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yea, some people like to play with their life.. started with a simple lie... then it would be following by other lying. that's I call they make their life in complication... while I want just simple life by being honest person...
Fruity, being honest also need a courage to tell... some of people prefer to tell white lying bcos they have no heart to tell bitter truth..
There is no such thing as BITTER truth. When it comes to telling the truth, the only bitter thing might be the word you used and the way you said it. (jmho)
Like you say Smartass, I try and be a decent person and keep my life Simple. Not that easy !!
I'm with Luke, on that! . . . .
what I mean with a bitter truth is like bad news, something people don't want listen or where people would not ready to accept the reality such as rejection, obituary or death news.
how we tell the truth that also will influence the acceptance.. but will not change the contents...
I agree to have a simple life is not easy, but it will come back to us, what life we want to live...
We can say the first education that children get is from home not from school.. how they act, how they talk, manner, respect other, etc good things, children will adopt from parent and society where they live... that is as foundation when they are growing where they will facing a real world.
often we say "what your parent taught you?" when we found "cute children"... we will not say what your teacher taught you bcos character is shaped from beginning from home since we were a baby.
well... that's all my opinion, maybe bcos of different culture some people will disagree with me.
I decided to get divorce or leave someone when I found a lie and no mercy... I will not let person to start small/funny lying to me, then finally it would be a habit. I dont have tolerance for that..
life experiences will shape us what kind of person we want to be... living like an angel and try to be an honest person is not easy at all.... big effort and courage we need for that. I am trying to be that person....
I agree, that we ought to be honest. And that we have an absolute obligation, to always tell the truth.
It is right to be honest.
Telling a lie is not being honest.
Therefore, we ought to tell the truth.
God bless!