Is the same true for guys?
Comment spotted today on Facebook:Most men aren't smart enough to realize that the better you make your woman feel about herself, the less available she is for other men.
When you run her down, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better.
Guys? true for you too? It has been my experience in the past that the more I boost my guy, the more he believes he's the business - and could pull any woman he wanted
Which was a bit irritating. Go find those mythical women, then, bud. Bye!
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mid fifties, would definately dedicate more attention. More
importantly the wisdom to have more open communication, than
I did in my thirties.(a learned thing).
like that in the first place, but for the fellas that still do,
A Woman can spot that a mile away.
Soulmates, as you say, just happen. And often don't tick all the boxes on those lists. Maybe the main (only?) box should be 'makes me feel special'
I am not so sure about your statement "the better you make your woman feel about herself, the less available she is for other men"..
I tend to think it would be the same as what a guy would feel if you boosted his ego, no?
As for your other comment following Ed:
"Soulmates, as you say, just happen. And often don't tick all the boxes on those lists. Maybe the main (only?) box should be 'makes me feel special'"
Don´t you think this sounds like asking for some validation?
In other words, you don´t think YOU ARE special, unless someone tells you?
I know, it is always nice to hear someone paying some nice compliments and to feel appreciated etc..but, what happens if we don´t have that "someone" who tells us?
Do we feel bad because of it?
Minerva, I know myself pretty well
Does exist???
If it does!!!!
Afrodite!!!!! Where are you???