Life
I told my psychologist that life is so boring when there is no purpose to live... No one to think of... She said: "it's right and it's wrong! First, you do have purpose to live, your purpose to live is to visit and discover all places you want to go... to make your parents happy, to help your crocodile eases from his life for this break up... You have your parents to think of... You have yourself to think of... So, do yourself a favour do not think about negative things..."Ok, I will try...
Sometime I feel so angry with myself! Why I can't be stronger?? Why?? :(
Is there anybody here need the help from pychologist after break up for even already over a year or it's only silly me?
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I read all your blogs without commenting... I read and I am just an observer from the distance...
But today I feel I need to say something, not only from a psychologist point of view, but also from someone who has had similar experiences and has learned to overcome what you are going through, someone who has forgiven... forgotten... and has moved on...
To your question: "is there anybody who needs a psychologist after a break up..."?, NO, I don´t!
The first thing you need to do is to "cut the cord" - cut all the emotional attachments and release it, then you will be able to move forward with your life...
As for a life purpose?.. Find your passion in life Mimi...?
What do you love doing? Then go and do it?
Our life purpose is to love one another "unconditionally", and to help and be of service.
How can you do this? Maybe you could do some voluntary work?
By helping others you will be able to heal yourself.
I am English and in England we don't run to these folk simply for the sake of talking to somebody who is willing to listen.
A bit confusing, I doubt it should be even mentioned.
Strange psychologist.
I know you have blogged many many times that you want an ear and not criticism but now you have blogged that even your psychologist is saying that "to help yourself and ease Crocodile out of your life"!
A marriage counselor, I say? I know. You have never been married but you have put yourself psychologically in the position of a divorcee, so to speak. You need to accept that Crocodile was not for you and that he was not your husband. Therefor there was no divorce.
THEN, if none of that works you need to accept God and you will then understand that God is your main anchor in life and not some guy that didn't want you. Studying the bible in a bible based church will lift you up out of your misery. But then that's another subject. If you are interested then we can e-mail about it. If your not then you still have an ear in me and I will continue to pray for you.
Like with any doctor, if you feel there is a need to get a second opinion on anything, you may want to consider seeking one from another qualified professional.
Not to mention....did you ask your doctor the same question you just asked us? "Sometime I feel so angry with myself! Why I can't be stronger?? Why??"