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Sure. They come oddest times though.

some people say they do have the answers, especially, those religious ones(no offense intended). On the other hand, I believe Answer only do come after life. Not while we are alive and kicking. I am pretty sure reasons that no dead came back alive is because they have gotten the Answer and they have no desire to come back. We will all get there.
My pop passed away half a year ago. I was very saddened. Still, here and there, I shred hints of tears thinking of my father. and then I console myself believing he is better off wherever he is now.

The other day, he appeared in my dream. He showed me two blue doors. He smiled at me quietly. He didn't say a word but I knew he wanted me to choose one of the doors and then I woke up screaming "father". Thank God, I live alone. It would have been very embarrassing for me 38 years old to be heard screaming like that in the middle of night. From that morning on, I kept thinking about the dream and the two doors. Two doors.. choices...

Looking back the years I lived, now I have more clearer picture of the end of the tunnel. No matter what I do, I will get there. either I take this door or the other door. However, in the mean time, as in my dream, there are choices to be made before.
Life is so temporary. I recall myself running alongside all other kids all over the village where I was born and grew up. Good times. Swimming in the river with other kids under the brighest sun. Playing with them until 9 p.m. at night, to my exhaustion. When fun was fun, and worries were only for the village adults to keep. happy times.

Now, I am in a world completely different from my home. I have lived here for the past 7 years. I make my money here. so I guess I will have to stay here for a while longer. I miss so much home...................
I understand how you are feeling. I come home alone to empty house every day also. Sometimes it crushes my heart to think I was born for this. and then I pick up my books. I study.. For the past three years I have been reading and studying. It focuses my mind. It helps me to get my mind off from mundane subjects and feelings.

Being an adult has an responsibilities. One of them has to be to end a story with a point. rather with an answer to the question that started it all. Life is the answer while we are alive. Anything other than that, we will attain afterward. ...

I will definitely have to visit my home village this year.....

Honestly I cannot tell you. I keep asking the same question and never seem to get the answer I'm looking for. At least we have friends to message and hear back from.

yesssss. answers come with questions. a package deal.....

when i am tired after work, it makes me happy cause i know that in a greater meaning of some sort, that i carried the load and some one else out there feels this burdon less. what i know about life giving you answers, is that an answer is really a direction, and we must be receptive in order to follow this direction, i would say to you make your lonelyness work for you, when that heavy feeling come's upon you reach out and touch something, someone, be receptive, and you will find that you have the strength to be somethin' better then lonely

I'm single and alone. I miss my relatives and friends because I'm in Bahrain-Middle East.
But when I come back from my job I do other activities like drawing catoons, astrology, reading books, music, going out side but never thing that I'm alone.
Always keep your mind engaged with activities, you are alone bit not alone. I'm happy for this.

Yes, I feel you'll / we'll get the answers. Keeping busy helps. Do things for others. Hang with family and friends. Think positive. Alot of us have been there and understand this. I wish you the best.

Hi dear, I am unhappily married but there is no kids. Now I want change. I like older mom.
hossain_monowar

hossian monovar,think twice before to offer your self to every woman here,got it??

Hi doll, Been there and done that. Been retired about two weeks and now I miss the hell out of work and the complaining and bitching and my couple of friends there.:-) I am so lonely!

It is so important to think secure and comforting thoughts. That act alone will make it easier. Congratulate yourself for everything you do to make life nicer for yourself and others. Endorse for your efforts, not for the results. You can control the effort but seldom the results. If thoughts can brings you sadness then thoughts can take sadness away.

javascript:emot(''); So many things in live try and tell us to distrust our self. Try to tell us we are defective or inadequate in some way. Life lived well, artfully is a learning to trust our self and our basic functions. You are the answer. Everything in you is for you and can be good for you if you can trust you.

Tiredness, sadness, and loneliness will run their course if you do not get angry at yourself for feeling it. Sometime we are going to be down no matter what we do. Let it be. Do it. Do happiness the same way. Except it. Do it. It is not necessary to feel good to function well. When you can roll with the punches they still hurt but you do not get cut up as bad. You do not get knocked out as easily. So you can fight back better and longer. Thank you for the good question. Love. Happyguy

I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO POSTED A COMMENT, EXCEPT FOR THE HORNY GUY (DISGUSTING).

BUT THANKS TO YOU ALL, I WILL CONTINUE TO BLOG AND STAY MORE POSITIVE. REALLY GREAT WORDS OF WISDOM FROM YOU GUYS AND IT IS REALLY APPRECIATED.

CLAUDIA

be patient sweety u will find the right man sooner or later,its not an easy issue anyway,life is full of problems&if u make a wrong choice u will be sorry for a long time,but family life is a blessing from god,i hope we will find it dear.