Alinson

portmore, Saint Catherine, Jamaica

Apr 2015

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What is wrong having a White Man for my Husband?

I can believe my best friend stop talking to me ,just because i said i need a white man for my husband in the future...she said i am being racial..i think i need a change from my race,have no luck with them..so whats wrong if i try something new...i love my color:but nothing is wrong if i date a white man...now i know the type of friends i should keep...LOVE YOU ALL..HAVE A GOOD NIGHT.

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boomboom2015●homestead, Florida USA

Apr 19, 2015●26 Blogs●145 Comments

You can only live for your self

not for your so called friend be you be happy

twazzle70●THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK

Apr 19, 2015●673 Comments

Hi Boomboom,,how are things with the ACM awards...

Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Apr 19, 2015●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

Twazzle

AlinsonOP●portmore, Saint Catherine Jamaica

Apr 19, 2015●7 Blogs●14 Comments

so true boomboom2015..she was just a pretender.

boomboom2015●homestead, Florida USA

Apr 19, 2015●26 Blogs●145 Comments

Tw its all good

I'm having a blast

twazzle70●THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK

Apr 19, 2015●673 Comments

Nice one Boom

Mimi..

Alinson it matters not of any skin colour or race,,do what makes you happy,,life is too short to be stressed about what others may or may not think i think..

boomboom2015●homestead, Florida USA

Apr 19, 2015●26 Blogs●145 Comments

I use to love that show the pretender

Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Apr 19, 2015●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

Hi Alinson Obviously your friend wasn't much of a Best Friend.

Obviously you have a right for the choices you make.

Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Apr 19, 2015●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

Hi Alinson

Oops sorry...

I'm yellow but the father of my kids is very dark brown and as a result both my kids are light brown.

Hmmm.....either you need to explain to your best friend about your situation and if she still doesn't get it then you'd need to seek a new one? Best friend, that is

Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Apr 19, 2015●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

Hi! A.
I agree with cc.
And the rest of them up above..

Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Apr 19, 2015●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

Heyyy! All Yaw.

Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Apr 19, 2015●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

Angel!!

seagrit●n/a, Albania

Apr 19, 2015●148 Comments

Alinson,

Men are all the same, whatever the colour of the skin!

You just have to find and get to know the right one for you.

PrettyPrescious●Renton, Washington USA

Apr 20, 2015●2 Blogs●145 Comments

Perhaps your friend is being racial and you are not

You have to live your life for YOU and not anybody else. She needs to grow up

guadal●Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Apr 20, 2015●252 Blogs●1,805 Comments

u got all children without husbands (or even without a male man) in Jamaica,
so what do u need one for?????

Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Apr 20, 2015●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

Alin.
Both of my parents were two different races. And my mom use to tell us (children) that! We don't have a race.
We Just Here!...

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Apr 20, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

It is your decision Alinson.

I do agree with Cat though, take your time to get to know ANYONE and see how you get on.

wonderfullife86●mumbai, Maharashtra India

Apr 20, 2015●32 Blogs●204 Comments

hii Alison..there is nothing wrong with it..its ur life and rest is about culture then i dont think its to hard to adjust in other culture if u realy want..just u need to love that culture and not to find faults in that..

jeimy●Fermoy, Cork Ireland

Apr 20, 2015●1 Blogs

KNenagh Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
9 hours ago
It is your decision Alinson.

I do agree with Cat though, take your time to get to know ANYONE and see how you get on. wave.

hai knenagh,how long you need to get to know anyone?in my experience onces they know the clour of skin,slowly disappear,

Ian158●manama, Manama Bahrain

Apr 21, 2015●99 Blogs●1,213 Comments

can i ask what happened to the father of your child..was he messing you around ?..jamaicans are the worst at it.

AlinsonOP●portmore, Saint Catherine Jamaica

Apr 21, 2015●7 Blogs●14 Comments

to be honest with you Ian158 he is a care free person ...but where responsible is concern and care for me and my son,he give is Mom all of that basically he is a mommas boy...i need someone who is family oriented and i think my son father is lack of that...we only talk just because the sake of my son..my son stick to me the most,sometimes i worry;because that's not how i wanted my family/my life to be...but i just have to except it the way it is.

AlinsonOP●portmore, Saint Catherine Jamaica

Apr 21, 2015●7 Blogs●14 Comments

i appreciate your comment catfoot...that's a very though one,i worried sometimes on my son ,especially because he is Black..if a White man would accept me with him.

AlinsonOP●portmore, Saint Catherine Jamaica

Apr 21, 2015●7 Blogs●14 Comments

I must say White do runs in both my father and mother side of family...my one and only brother married a white lady.

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Apr 22, 2015●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

@ Alinson: I think most people know that they have to accept a partners kid, someone not willing to do this is probably not the right partner for any single parent.

@ jeimy: I know after talking to someone if I don't want to see him again. After that, I like to take my time. I prefer to know someone socially before I start something. Anything serious, I would think 3+ years to get to know someone thoroughly.

I can only speak for myself, colour of skin wouldn't be a concern for me, though different cultures would.

slim15●calgary, Alberta Canada

Apr 27, 2015●2 Comments

Hey Alinson

For one thing a best friend would back you up on all the thoughts and decisions you make no matter if your right or wrong , but i know exactly where your coming from . It's a sister thing .

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