Skeletons In The Closet
I have few skeletons stashed in my closet and I believe most of us do. I try hard not to think of them, always do my best to forget them but they're there and something would remind me of them from time to time. It's no longer a complete secret but I've hid them from people who are close to me. It never give me a good feeling, in fact it only make me feel guilty but for many good reasons I keep them hidden.Well I do wonder from time to time whether I should take them to grave or set them free and leave them behind
Would you like to be buried with your secrets or would you tell on your deathbed?
A lovely weekend to all of you
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so what's your? do tell
Was a great warm sunny day here.
I put that down as a price of an education. Nothing to lie about, an open book really. It is what it is, don't wear two faces.
what kind of skeleton is it?
you sure you don't have one? I don't want to burden you more with mine
sounds like a very open book...much easier to live with.
It's easy to start lying on something but difficult to come clean but I guess there's always a right time for it
I cooked soup my my skeletons a long time ago.
well, I didn't kill anyone.
It's just my divorce that I keep from my family
What's the going rate?
that's a fantastic idea but there's no railway nearby my place
Was it digested well?
You are not sparing them anything imo. Again, it is what it
is, you can't change history. It is your life, and this is what
happened. You dealt with it, now let them deal with it.
(my 2 cents)
It's just my way of sparing them from any bad feelings, didn't want them to worry during those times I hit rock bottom. Just wondering if there's any point in opening old wounds now...I've survived and doing great, would only upset them to find out now.
It just bother me everytime they ask for my "husband"
you're making those cats very happy, lucky cats!
Yes...they think I'm happily married here
Just use your vacuum cleaner....I have dog/cat hairs
As much as he sheds I would have enough hair to make a rug.
Parents can feel what's in the hearts of their "babies". No need to lie, as they figure out, somehow someway.. That's what I know..
But.. each to each own.
It is better to hear it from you, rather than second hand.imo.
You eat chicken bones too?
A rug...that's a good idea. Just get a vacuum ...just in case
I have great parents, great family. Very close to each other. But I'm far away from them, they worry over me. I know they will worry more if they find out. My father was very ill during those bad times so I kept everything to myself. Went home last summer, spent almost 2 months with them and it wasn't easy keeping a facade
Yes, I'm trying to figure out out when and how
Agree..
No, I didn't ask him but he was so scared that I won't bring his son back so he called morning and night...and it did helped
I had to briefed my son tho
It seems like quite a thing to keep secret,and you obviously must have an idea as to what the outcome would be if they were to find out,but for me personally i would want to get it out in the open so it could be put in the past where it belongs.
Various cultures and generations view things differently so i cant pretend to know how youre parents (or anyone elses for that matter) would react.
But like you said "you havent killed anyone" or anything sinister,,this is a divorce,,happens everyday to people all over the world.
Doesnt make you a bad person.
Youre parents are quite possibly more clued up than you think they are.
Parents are good at reading between the lines,,and as you are theyre daughter they would surely love you regardless...
I would tell them if it were me,,but good luck in whatever course of action you take..
I'm very very close to them...I simply didn't want them to worry over me. They always worry and my mom won't be able to sleep at night if she knows I'm having bad times here all alone.
I have a very big close family, no divorce there...they probably have asked me not to come back here if I told them everything that happened.
It's all in the past now, it's just not easy to lie everytime they ask for my "husband"