pete989 Blog Post: Wed May 27, 2009 6:43 PM CST

pete989 p-town, New Jersey USA
Posted:Wed May 27, 2009 6:43 PM CST

Why teens like me would come to this site.

I was requested by a female member to explain exactly why I would want to come to a site like this. Here Is my explanation on why I would want to do something like this and others in my age group would also. She said that at my age it would seem easy to meet someone and do this and that with people you meet and it should be no problem which seems sensible. I have done this and many other teens have also but heres the problem. Even if you surround yourself with tons of girls or friends, you will always feel alone without the strong connection with someone that we all search for and desire to have. Girlfriends that I have had did not want stable long lasting relationships which I have always wanted and in most of them there was no connection of true friendship which any couple should have. They all seem to go from one guy to the next and will leave your heart broken and make a guy not want to care about relationships anymore. Why do girls say they want caring guys when all they do is rip your heart out? There are less caring guys in this world because girls make us this way. This is not always the case just something Myself and others I have talked to experienced. Im tired of girls I meet where I live and I want to see what else this world has to offer which Im sure there are a lot of real girls out there. To say based on my age that it should be no problem to meet someone real or I should feel no need to go on a site like this does not make sense to me. We are no different except in our experiences in life which we all have our own stories to tell. Nevertheless though I am here for the same reason you are, Finding new people to talk to, meet, and just see some new faces because we all long for something more and this site shows there is more to the world then the town I currently live.

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mark65 sydney, New South Wales Australia
Wed May 27, 2009 7:09 PM CST
well put there is no reason any one shouldent be here
some older pepole forget there youth and the fact that our youth
are have emotional needs to just like the did at the same years in life
technology is not the relm or proporty of just older pepole
you have raised an point that may be out of the comprehension range of some lol
welcome and enjoy your stay





i has a blog in mind i feel it in me old bones lol
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pete989 p-town, New Jersey USA
Wed May 27, 2009 8:02 PM CST
I am glad you can understand where Im coming from and knowing that no matter what age your at we all have real emotions and feelings to subjects that are important to us and others. I would say Im definetely intouch with the way I look at things and on a little bit of a different maturity level then most kids I know consideringmy past situations and things ive been through. Lets you know whats important in life.
sweet_saucy2008 Northwest, Tennessee USA
Thu May 28, 2009 12:02 AM CST
I must say that your reasons are profound. I have studied many in your age category who all want to find someone to become serious with and get married. Why when you have so much growing to do emotionally would anyone wish to dig into something so deep. Experience more in life than you already have. Making new friends is not a bad thing. Getting away from your neighborhood for new points of view is also beneficial. So have I fogotten what youth is as it has been suggested? Not at all, I have lived life in the fast lane and it did not bring on any more happiness although I did meet someone from out of state. My point of study was to understand why people in a young age group feels a need to become serious not why they are on this site at all. I would like to pass on some advice though. Don't be disappointed if the results you hope to acquire do not come to fruition. Go on and further your education, get some living in before you find yourself married with a family by the time you are 20 or so. There is no shame in playing the field. I was married at 18, had two children by the time I was 23 and divorce at 26 with two young children to raise alone. The story I had going in did nothing to prepare me for that.
I would give the same advice about not rushing in to those who are over 40 and feel a sense of loss after a divorce and afraid of growing older alone. The truth is that there is life after 40 and many besides myself have learned the key to doing that.
I will finish by saying, I wish you well in your search for happiness and may you find it.
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pete989 p-town, New Jersey USA
Thu May 28, 2009 7:04 PM CST
I appreciate your knowing of why Im here and I can only wish you the same as you have wished for me which is finding what we all are searching for.
liakos samos, South Aegean Greece
Sat May 30, 2009 12:15 PM CST
RSPX pete, don't worry bout what people think. Decent fucking talk.

Don't overtrust older people, and don't feel obliged to account to them. It's not rare that they might be less informed than what you might be.


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pete989 p-town, New Jersey USA
Sun May 31, 2009 4:22 PM CST
Ya man ur definetely right about that. Its hard to trust anyone really these days.

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