Posted:Fri May 29, 2009 11:33 PM CST
sickness and health
another girl tells the story how she was ABANDONED after getting sick...he went to hospital once then quit...i have met many who were married to fair weather lovers....
who will you have,,, a lover who understands the vows.....VOWS...
it is really not that hard to understand...i asked my wife if we could go to counseling...she said she knows i love her ....SHE KNOWS I LOVE HER,.....but this is about her....not us
Pisces56
Madison, Wisconsin USA
Sat May 30, 2009 11:29 AM CST
LOVE..........
Love is an everlasting flame that cannot be extinguished
In the mist of human anguish and sometimes betrayal the heart still loves
Through heart brakes and pain through all the up and downs, the heart will not grow empty
Love transcends all fears, overshadows doubt and plants a seed of hope
It’s not hard to comprehend how something so beautiful can, grow mold and dissident
Love inspires, it offers intimate triumphs of our pain, if offers emotions to be shared and cherished
The spirit of what we know touch and feel reaches, from the belly of what we have been taught
We feel love's betrayal, the heart broke, the anguish, the pain if we ever try to extinguish the flame
To extinguish the flame is not contrary to GOD’s LOVE for mankind, love transcends
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Sat May 30, 2009 11:41 AM CST
Thankyou so much for this reply...i promise to read it several times..to take it all in!
gratefully
kds
mark65
sydney, New South Wales Australia
Sun May 31, 2009 9:29 AM CST
some times because of love we have to let go,thats the hardest
i have a black hole torn in my soul because of illness
and loss i pray it will heal cause it still hurts after years
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Wed Jun 3, 2009 10:51 AM CST
i feel your sorrow bro...it will heal if you let it..
MsMysteryArt
Hanko, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
Sat Jun 13, 2009 4:14 AM CST
This is something that also upsets me a great deal. 6-8 out of 10 men abandon their women when these get cancer. Men usually don't even visit their spouses in hospital when they are ill. It's a bit like friends telling you they will only talk to you if you're being cheerful. It's ugly. But come on, it's not about VOWS. That's very archaic IMO. It's about daring to go deep enough in your love for the other person and being a decent human being because you have a conscience. Open up the doors of your soul. But who really wants to do that these days? People figure there's no pay off. It's very materialistic and narcissistic.