Posted:Fri May 29, 2009 11:47 PM CST
better or worse
for better or for worse....this is where i can not understand what happened ...after 25 years and when i ask if we can go to counseling. ...she say she will go for counseling.for herself ! alone...this is now about her???..not us?....why is our culture so inbred selfish to the point of destroying families as if they do not matter any more..
will your lover be there for better and for worse??? or will you also be abandoned?
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Sat May 30, 2009 9:19 AM CST
LoveWhen love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.
Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest
branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you
may become sacred bread for God’s sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know
the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a
fragment of Life’s heart.
"Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding"
----from “The Prophet” of Khalil Gibran”-----
Dear Phoenix,
Kahlil Gibran says that Love makes you a bread so that everyone can eat you. I know you are a sweet bread already.
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Sat May 30, 2009 11:16 AM CST
thanks sweety
i thought that looked familiar,,,but it has been 35 years since i read it....
you are very sweet and kind to me....i thank you
CARMSTRONG
TALISAY, CEBU, Cebu City Philippines
Sat May 30, 2009 10:04 PM CST
Phoenixrising1 maybe your ex-wife wants here to be alone, i think she was getting tired to have a partner, she wants to be single. this is not the first time i heard. Im just wondering why this always happened to other country. As what i have observed almost foreign people not successful to their marriage life. Maybe not both of them are loyal. Im very proud of our country here coz only few couples getting separated even were not rich. The important is both of them have love feelings and helping each other to solve all the trials that comes to their life. Each of one should be understand their feelings and not allow everyone to destroying families and hurting. If i were in that situation i will save my marriage so that my still be one. Phoenixrising this is not the end of your life. Try to move on i know you can find a woman soon that will love you forever maybe your ex-wife doesnt want to stay with you for the rest of her life, maybe she is not the right woman for you. The only way you do is to pray god i know he listen to the people who will call him. We dont know soon you find the woman will love you and stay with you forever. dont loose hope!
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Sat May 30, 2009 10:08 PM CST
thankyou carmstrong for your very nice comment....i am sure you are right ...!
kds
CARMSTRONG
TALISAY, CEBU, Cebu City Philippines
Sat May 30, 2009 10:08 PM CST
Marriage is not a toy that you can throw if you dont like her/him. Marriage is for a forever not for a short time. Marriage is a holy so it doesnt good to abandoned if you dont love him or her. Im not agree of abandoned.
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Sat May 30, 2009 10:08 PM CST
heatherhuntsman
van nuys, California USA
Sat May 30, 2009 10:34 PM CST
abandoned, please do not trip peace and love heather
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Sun May 31, 2009 2:29 AM CST
yes girl abandoned
the vow is what was abandoned..
please don't trip ...ok but look at the other examples...sickness or health ...richer or poorer...it is much more clear..
mark65
sydney, New South Wales Australia
Sun May 31, 2009 8:53 AM CST
there is some things that we have no say in sickness is one
i lost a partner to sickness
mental illness to be exact,there comes a time when there is no life left in relationship and by mutual feelings of love and respect we ended 12 years of commitment life was to hard to bare for boath partys , if you dont agree or understand this,that is ok with me i wont argue with any one on it,only those who have lived it would or could understand ,,,one of the hardest thing in life,and it wasent a cheap abandonment it was expencive on my soul ,,, an up note she is healthy,sort of happy and living with her cats and my heart is happy she has found some silence and pease in her life,
we go on we live we finde a new place in our heart and let the love light shine in
phoenixrising1 no matter how bad it gets it gets better
just you wach mate it will
mine just recently took a turn i think
when you least expect it out of the blue
some one will steal you lol
peace and respect to you mate
(carmstrong you amaze me)
phoenixrising1
south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
Tue Jun 2, 2009 4:46 AM CST
mark thank you for that
yes carmstrong is amazing ....really truly so
thankyou mark for your encouraging words...sorry for your sorrow
....i am glad you may have found someone..
keep on being happy
