smilemore Blog Post: Tue Jun 9, 2009 11:20 AM CST

smilemore sicily, Sicilia Italy
Posted:Tue Jun 9, 2009 11:20 AM CST

age gap is soo a big problem ??

i feel like don't suit very well with my being, no no ..i'm not depressing or so laugh , is just this make me think many and many times ,for example i have a LOT of friends ,but i really "feel" inside i don't suit with them, untill i was little was always going around with my more older cousines, and his friends laugh , maybe is this i growing up to fast? i feel more good with people mature ,i don't know why ,but i'm at ease (is that spelled right? blushing)
i'm strange?

...why people seem to care SO MUCH to difference of age? (with this question i don't mean s*x, but friendship of course and in general life)

- and even ... if there is a sympathy (liking) people easilly "give-up" ,"becouse the mind is impressed by that "! -

don't you think ? i'm glad to hear every comments from everybody ,man ,woman ,old ,and young (of course ) laugh

thank you very much
comfort wave

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YURIMA Busan South Korea
Tue Jun 9, 2009 12:25 PM CST
Hello,age is just a number,me my self almost all my
friends outside the CS is half of my age..older people
in general ..you can learn more good things from them
and feel free to ask what is good,,put this in your
mind(try to make closed to them),


Yuri,
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smilemore sicily, Sicilia Italy
Tue Jun 9, 2009 1:31 PM CST
wave Yuri
thanks for write a answer
but from what you wrote at the end seem you misunderstand something ... i'm the one who don't care to that ,and i like stay ,talk ,joke , with people older than me , the "problem" are the people older than me ..who seem not want be so friendly ,like are scared ,take the distance ,or suspicious (diffident) confused , maybe becouse they are habit who young have not respect and don't trust nobody ? dunno dunno dunno dunno dunno dunno dunno dunno
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YURIMA Busan South Korea
Tue Jun 9, 2009 2:09 PM CST
Smilemore,

In my country older people are very like to talk & joke
with the younger people,,try to join them when the topic
is not serious,if they're talking & joking then that is the
time to enter & talk to them..some time older people have
many topic that younger people are not allow to hear or listen
you're nice....just take time..ok.


Yuri.
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Orella Longview, Washington USA
Tue Jun 9, 2009 9:13 PM CST
The reason age is a factor is because most women over 45 already have children and if they are with a younger man romantically they feel the man may be giving up his opportunity to have children of their own. Perhaps they feel the younger person may leave them if they get sick or something. Maybe they think the younger person must want something from them and are afraid to take the risk. It is hard to look at our bodies and faces in the mirror and think a younger firmer more healthy person couldn't love us. Good Hunting Ruby
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smilemore sicily, Sicilia Italy
Wed Jun 10, 2009 7:09 AM CST
The reason age is a factor is because most women over 45 already have children and if they are with a younger man romantically they feel the man may be giving up his opportunity to have children of their own. Perhaps they feel the younger person may leave them if they get sick or something. Maybe they think the younger person must want something from them and are afraid to take the risk. It is hard to look at our bodies and faces in the mirror and think a younger firmer more healthy person couldn't love us. Good Hunting Ruby

hello Ruby ,
thank you very much to write here and your answer was very good,you centred a very good points and i understand a lot more now ..and made me think a lot too roll eyes
1) about the children ..you talked right but like everythings is subjective ,i will be honest in this age (of the world) i think much and i'm scared to think have my own child , becouse i know personally many and many family who son who made them crazy,and they are desperate more they try to talk ,and made understand what is good more worst, and i think the law today protect more child than parents ,how a parents can give a good education to his son ,if everythings they do go to jail ,or get report , i'm wrong ???? scold
the high percentual of son "today" are very lazy ,they want just play computerand have a very dirty room ,put everythings everywhere ,no respect for nobody,ecc... ,with this i mean i'm scared to think have my own! i'm wrong ?
by the way ..
seem like we join in another topic laugh
for finish ..
don't you think if 2 younger person stay toghether ..,if something bad happen to one ..the other could run away the same ?
confused
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wolyrra Riga, Riga Latvia
Thu Jun 11, 2009 5:15 PM CST
In fact even physically it is not healthy to have sex with older person. It exhausts the younger partner physically and emotionally, he feels weakness and depression. Unfortunately itš reality.

Now I will probably aware to have relationship with much more younger men moping
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smilemore sicily, Sicilia Italy
Sun Jun 14, 2009 8:54 AM CST
hello WOlyrra
wow ..i really don't understand what you say blues
(even i want clarify ..we was not talking about "s°x" but of a relationship ,young-mature in general )
anyway ..why you say is not physically healthy have a intimacy with mature people?
and why the young will feel like drepression ? or so ?
really don't understand uh oh
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SummerUK Washington, Tyne and Wear, England UK
Fri Jul 17, 2009 11:37 AM CST
I can't wait to find out the answer to your question to wolyrra too lol How interesting some peoples perspectives are about things giggle
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smilemore sicily, Sicilia Italy
Mon Jul 20, 2009 8:53 AM CST
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