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Posted:Tue Jun 16, 2009 9:58 PM CST
What is up with mind games with online dating?
How do you define the sincere people from those who want someone to occupy their free time?
I have noticed that the people you begin to trust with personal about yourself tend to use it as a tool to hurt you. I had such an experience when I tried to give someone new space in order to take care of his affairs. He took it as a personal afront and repeatedly brought it up to me. Once he said something that irritated me so in return he used a comment that my ex husband used to hang over my head.
If a person cannot accept that you meant them no harm, why go on unless he was waiting to make his attack for touche'. Yes it hurts when it is so personal and told in strict confidence then after shredding your character discards you like you were a waste of his time. If they say that they want to relocate to be near you, be very wary indeed. You may have to support them even if they find job when they are unskilled.
Who can you trust anymore when a singles site is like s smorgasborg for the low lifes? 
chughtayejee
burewala, Punjab Pakistan
Wed Jun 17, 2009 12:03 AM CST
its really a bitter experience.
the ways to jedge a person before friendship....
1. set a check on one's promises (a duplicate can be judged)
2. set a check when u share him during eating (a greedy man can be judged)
3. set a check during travel (can be judged whether one is caring or not)
Ross123
Beverly, Massachusetts USA
Wed Jun 17, 2009 3:53 AM CST
Seems like you have to be careful before you trust anybody. There are good guys out there. It's just that you have to go thru the losers before you find them.
huneebee4u
wagoner, Oklahoma USA
Fri Jun 19, 2009 5:34 PM CST
You should be older and seeking someone. Some just want to talk dirty - wonder why? I'm retired not dead, older people still need a hug from someone other than family. By the time you get my age most of us have a lot of baggage - but to deliberatly hurt someone is so-o-o dirty!
I've recieved messages from a couple under 50, think they needed someone to support them. Thanks for allowing me to vent!
sg0974
Shelbyville, Indiana USA
Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:08 PM CST
Judge ye, ye not be judged. It sounds like to me that you chose a complete loser instead of finding your happiness of what you ''need'' in life and notice what I put in quotation. If you have ever read the rules of blogging here, it clearly states that if you are not happy with this site for any reason then you are more than welcomed to leave the site, that's only if you think that connecting singles is nothing but a ''smorgasborg for the low lifes''