Posted:Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:44 AM CST
was it wrong?
okay so it may be alil confusing but ima put it like this.
When i was 13 i lost my virginity to a guy that was my bestfriend under friends with benefits. I did everything for this boy. If he wanted something from me i gave it to him. Its many years later and i still have that regretful feelin inside me. He had still talked to me for awhile then just went off on me like 2 weeks ago over myspace. See, im trying not to let what people have to say about me bother me as i move on with life. But im still very confused at this point of what todo about it. I dont know if i should just let it go and forget it but if i had to how? I seriously need help "(
sky40
Noord Aruba
Wed Jun 17, 2009 11:31 AM CST
Look baby the only help you need is you, you said it all let it go and move on with your life and go down on your kneels ask God to forgive you and him becuase at that age i think no one should lost her virginity to nobody,i know nowadays it is very comma people loosing their virginity at a early age but, it is wrong okay,let say 17 and 18 then is okay.
If you ask God for forgivness he will and you will finally have a sign of releive and think less about the whole issues and you will have the ability to move on with your life.
AnAngelAlways
Joshua, Texas USA
Wed Jun 17, 2009 6:17 PM CST
Well, giving the gift of virginity at so young an age can have some implications as you're finding out. What's done is done. All you can do is ask God for forgiveness (like the saying goes,"Let go and let God") and move on to bigger and better things!
The world is your oyster, hon. Go out there and grab it!
candy25
fayetteville, Arkansas USA
Wed Jun 17, 2009 8:04 PM CST
What are you feeling regretful about? The fact that you lost your virginity at 13 with your best friend? That you did everything for him? Or that that's all it was? This is all a life experience for you. You live, You learn, and you move on. I try not to ever have regrets. I try to learn from the mistakes I make, and I know that I'll make more. No ones perfect. I think you should move on with your life and learn from this. I believe you are doing the right thing by trying not to let others opinions bother you. People will talk. No one knows what you went through and why you did the things you did, except you. I wish you luck.
wallybescotty
Dickson, Tennessee USA
Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:07 PM CST
I Understand That Must Be Rough, But It Seems like you Did more Than most, And u shoulnt beat yourself up about it. Try And move on If you can, but life is tough, and you'll get through it somehow. not sure if it helps or makes sense
babiboy
Soweto, Johannesburg South Africa
Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:28 PM CST
Love it happened. How you feel now won't change and take it back. So the best is to accept and move on with pride. Look you gave it to him cause you wanted to. Imagine had you been raped then things like that never go away. This you can. you still have your Pride beauty and power.