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No I don't think it is you. There are alot of people on this site as well as many other sites. You just need to be patient to find the one that responds. Your expectations are not to high, its just a matter of the right woman. Be patient, she is out there..

Personally I have met up with 9 girls who I met on this site. Four of them let me hit it on the first night, two others turned out to be married, another one asked to have sex for a hundred dollars, another one stole two hundred dollars from me, and the last one stunk so bad that I couldn't keep it up. Yes there is real wemon on this site, but most of them are scum in the bottom of the bucket. I am not trying to hook up with anymore wemon on here, because I have no problem hooking up with them in clubs and so forth. I am just here spreading knowledge. Word of advice, be very careful.

Well i think some of the things handymanrichie said is true i had this one lady who went away with my $180 that i send to her to process a visa to come and visit me,and she was targeting me to give her the money for the ticket and when i ask her to send me the visa to me to be really sure if in fact,she did spend the money for a visa she stop talking to me.

And another one ask me for me the very first day we started talking and when she find out that i was not an America citizen she bail out so, all you america citizen on this web site plesae be careful, and thank God history did not repeat itself as the first one.

Both parties have to agree to instant messaging. When it pops up on screen it does not tell us who you are, i got one recently only to find a sick pervo masturbating, so that is the big reason. If you invite them and they dont accept, HEY they dont want to talk to you. Not to becruel in anyway if they dont email you either, take the hint

some have pop up blockers and don't get the im straight away, until they click on it. others look at your profile then decide, i have been told that i am the only one who replies so it happens to many not just you. keep trying, you must get a hit some time.

Yes dont let it defeat you...lve spoken to and fell in love with a few coloured men,one l devoted 5 months to, another was 4 months,another was 3.lve spoken to many.
But ALL turned out to be scammers...or just fake anyway.so l think people assume as soon as a black man is showing on the pop up window,he gets clicked off.
l still have faith in love...l dont tar all black men with the same brush.There are some really lovely ones out there.
l still give each individual the same courtesy and respect until l can detect a fake.
lve probably spoken to 20 black men over 4 years.lts such a shame that those few make it look so bad for your race.lt just means your job will be harder now.lts from many years of scammers.
You sound like a nice guy and your profile reads well...keep your chin up,theres someone for everyone out there.l never give up...nomatter how hard it is on these sites.My god,my hope,my heart is stronger in my search for getting wiser and knowing what lm looking for.Or not looking for.:)

lts all a testing ground on these sites.

Good luck:)

I agree with priorities75..

Shes out there...and yes there are soo many women with profiles that express they are serious, that they dont want games etc etc..yet they have less of an attention span than a gnat jumping from message to message..man to man most of the time not bothering to even reply with a hello..its read and deleted..if they bother to read.

Most of this type...are seeking the man that will vomit endless attention and probably money and opportunity to them as well and they assess the man's tendency to do this via your 1st message...is it an endless verbose pining hungry desire? if not..delete ...then they smile and pose as some mature...independent and sincere this and that..hardly.

Consider these women, to do your weeding out for you...and the ones that do stop by, that's a possible real fish on the line and be prepared to drop the negativity of the 100s of other discourtiously unresponded to e-mails you sent out before.

Its quite the strange thing to uncover that the very women who broadcast and spout most that they are sick of the games and are seeking that real and honest man and all the rest of it..are the very ones..that are least genuine. One should ask..why have they experienced this? hmm? If they have been gamed and dropped like a chewing gum wrapper this many times, to the point that theor headline of invitation is this whine...theres a possible reason for it..yet they keep projecting it on us Just send this type a genuine message in respect and intent and you'll see why they have this whine...your communication cycle with them in that e-mail will be one way and unreplied....and in person..shes acts the same with slights and non completed communication cycles and emotionally manipulated games.

We create what we focus on and ...thus..those that cry game the most are the masters of it.

Diyaa send always longest letters, I never read